2006-10-16 16:40:58 · 15 answers · asked by kkayang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you do that on first date he will think you do this on a regular routine STOP try learning a new way to feel good and like your self,respect your self then you will find a meaningful relationship,with someone who will like,respect and adore you for who you are.THEN YOU HAVE A FUTURE WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU REALLY LIKE AND GOT TO KNOW
2006-10-16 16:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl i have been there and done that! There really isn't anything you can do if you have already slept with him and he wont end up liking you, because you have slept with him. He is going to think you are easy and just want you to have sex with and not a real relationship. The best advice i can give you is not to have sex with anyone on the first date again, because that is what i do now and i still have the chance of the relationship ending up as a friends giving each other some, but that is the chance us girls gotta take! So good luck girly!
2006-10-16 23:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety first off. This should make you think alittle about how easily available you are making yourself. I only feel like I can say this because I was promiscous as hell as a teenager, im 28 now old enough to know I did some stupid stuff, the problem is you never know until its done if the decision you are getting ready to make is a blow off or one of those things you'll wonder about forever. Like did I scare this guy off and he could have been something special, and guess what they really do appreciate you WAY more whenyou make them wait. My man actuallly did that to me and it blew me away.. Try to choose wisely because those things you regret haunt you for a long time both wrong choices and mist oppertunitys. But back to your question. If he likes you be honest and tell him you are feeling wierd about it and don't want him to think you are a slut. If hes really cool he wont mind getting to know you for a few more weeks or so before you do it again for your second 1st time!! good luck and be good!
2006-10-16 23:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by gloria m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Did you sleep with him because you didn't like him? I think what I am hearing you try to say is you just wanted sex not an attachment initially, is that right? I don't know your circumstances but I do know what is to sleep with someone out of just a physical need of intimacy. It is usually impersonal with no strings attached. Yes I have ended up liking a guy later on. The question is will be end up liking you. I've been around for a while in this life and I have found out from experience that these situations usually end up nowhere. Usually they end up being just for convenience or to alleviate tension on both parties. My suggestion to you is like them first, get to know them second, and if you feel that you have to sleep with them do so. This way you can really see what you are in for and up against. Don't be so quick to jump in bed. You body is your temple start to treat it as such. Hope this helps...
2006-10-16 23:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what can you do? Looks like you have done it all already. If you should end up liking him later on it will probably be too late.....by then he has figured out, that you are easy and sleep around on your first date with anybody that wants you to do it. Why should he care if you like him or not?
Hope you have a nice day!
2006-10-16 23:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle Alf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have slept with him in the first place...but he got what he wanted so dont expect anything long term now...keep this up and you'll be lonely for the rest of your life...sex isnt love...
2006-10-16 23:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, i say good luck. Guys generally diss you after they get to **** you the first time.. but hey he mite come back for more.. just dont get ur hopes up...
2006-10-16 23:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by tajniks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all make sure he still wants to see you and that he was not just after the sex
then just see if the feeling of like is mutual
2006-10-16 23:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like him now i don't know why you slept with him. if you do, then if you were good he'll probably want it again.
2006-10-16 23:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i guess moral standards are out the door....
2006-10-16 23:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by OldSchool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋