If my ex who is dating some1 else told me how much he missed me and then we got in a fight do you think he still misses me. After the fight we decided to remain friends but it was awkward. Don't tell me to give up bc i still have feelings for him. He only got with this girl a week ago.
Pretend your the guy and tell me what you think will work best to make him miss me more/again. We are on each others msn lists. Should i block him and then unblock him for 1min a day to make him want to chat with me or should i block him for a week/2weeks straight and then unblock him? Or unblock him and let him chat to me when he is ready?
Remember my goal is to make him miss me and want to talk to me.
Thanks everyone
2006-10-16 16:38:55 · 14 answers · asked by optimistic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think he is interested in you which is why he is with someone else. So sorry I will have to say give it up.
The answer you want to hear: Oh just hang in there and continue to stalk him and I'm sure he'll take you back soon.
Real Life: He has moved on, so should you.
Best Wishes!!
2006-10-16 16:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why play games?? Ask him if he misses you, if he misses you he will let you know. Also Let him know that you miss him and let him know how you feel about him. If he lets you know that he is happy with his current relationship it would really be best to give up it does sound like you arent wanting to hear the truth. If you really believe that you have a future with him let him know. He is also probably scared because you are being clingy and play games. It does take guys awhile to forgive and forget when it comes to fights. SO just give him room and let him get over the fight and maybe he will realize he misses you
2006-10-16 23:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by vidamar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I guess you could try that. Stop being in contact for a short while...wait, that won't work, trust me. Maybe he's trying to see if you are jealous of the fact that he's dating someone else.
Uh, "Opti", I guess the best way to make him miss you is to hang-out. That way, he'll remember about the good ol' times, right?
Just remember this, when you love someone, always leave something for yourself. Good luck with that!
(Your name isn't really Optimistic, right?)
2006-10-16 23:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by kristian121989 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't block or ignore him but don't make a special effort to contact him either. Go out with someone else and kinda casually mention it nest time you talk to him. If he doesn't bite then, just continue to see other people and DON'T EVER LET HIM SEE YOU SWEATING HIM!!! That is very important. If he really likes you, you seeing someone else should bring him around. Good luck!!!
2006-10-16 23:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by rudee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From what you are saying, he has all the cards. You a totally blind to the fact that he is playing you, so that if and when things go bad with this other girl he has YOU to fall back on. Do you really want to be his fall back option. I hope you like yourself better than that, if you play this stupid game, guaranteed you LOSE!
2006-10-16 23:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by canine582002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm- be sweet & flirtatious when you do talk to him but kind of evasive like; vague about your life/plans. dont stay on the phone w/ him for too long; and always be the one to let him go... because you're so busy, of course. whatever you do, DONT hang on him, pressure him, whine, act desperate, or ask him 101 questions about what hes doing or if he wants you. just be cute & sweet & act like you're just fabulous & fine... & get busy w/ new things because that makes a guy curious.
PS, sweetie. i hope this helps, however, if this guy is going on w/ a girl & all that I really dont think hes worth your time anyway.but, if you want him..
2006-10-16 23:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely, his thoughts are:
"Let me see if I can get my dumbass ex as my back up in case my new girl leaves me."
"I have two girls that want to be with me, I'm the man!"
If he really wanted you back, he'd be with you. He's playing you and the new girfriend. You're actually second best because SHE has the title, not you.
2006-10-16 23:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No don't block him he'll get mixed signals...let it get out that your seeing someone else...and let him know that you are interested in trying some new sexual techniques but not sure who would want to try them with you.
2006-10-16 23:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with someone else. That;ll get him missing you.
2006-10-16 23:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Foss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respond to him when he clicks in to chat and tell him your are chatting with someone.But never reveal who it is.Then look him up later.So you are not lying to him.Find one of your friends on line.Then chat with them like a girlfriend.Everytime he asks never tell him.He will start to get jealous.Then when he asks you back.Tell him who you were chatting with and you were trying to figure out how to get him back.
2006-10-17 00:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋