I have been going out with a guy and he is really nice to me we laugh a lot when we talk to each other BUT, he calls me sporadicaly and he has only asked me out 2 times, I asked him out once . Anyways at the beginning I thought he was taking things slow but now things haven´t changed and I don´t know if I should stop taking his sporadic calls or be more patient and wait a little longer. Help me out here I need opinions! Thanxs
2006-10-16 16:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on what your heart is telling you... if YOU feel it is time to move on then it prob. is...... listen to YOUR own inner voice and heart... it will never stear you wrong !!!! God bless
2006-10-16 16:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are thinking about leaving but asking everyone else about it without even talking to him. It's time to leave when he is verbally or physically abusive or does something you find morally questionable or something you really can't tolerate. If you're telling the whole story here, it just sounds like you haven't really told each other how you feel, or you both want different things.
Anyway, you'll never know if you don't talk to him about it.
2006-10-16 23:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by tiffany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're not getting even a modest return on your investment. Cut your losses. The key to a happy ending is knowing when to roll the credits....
2006-10-16 23:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Foss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself things havent changed-- i sense this thing is moving like a 7 car funeral here- with a old lady driver in the wrong- lane here cuting off trafic here-- is this thing moving too slowly for you you want more out of life fel like your geting the run around-?/ i thought so, move on downe that lonely highway hons its time to get out--- its over with--- dump him.
2006-10-16 23:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depends on how long you guys have been dating. If it's been like 2 or more months, MOVE ON! Find someone else who is on the same level as you!
2006-10-16 23:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by light_skinned06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe this boy is shy and doesn't want to move fast. but how long has it been since you guys have been seeing each other?
2006-10-16 23:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋