My good friend is dating the guy that I truelly care about, and the thing is, is that he acts like he isn't even interested in her, but wont do anything about it. We are always flirting, but I dont want to hurt her either. But, at the same time, I am crazy about him- What do I do?
2006-10-16 16:26:42 · 14 answers · asked by Hayley C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play it cool. If he doesn't like her and he likes you then things will work out and she will realize she doesn't have a chance with him. If she is your friend, she'll understand and move on to another guy. Otherwise if he likes her, then you need to be the one who moves on to another guy.
2006-10-16 16:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to flirt with a guy who is dating your best friend? Don't waste your time on boys like him. Pay attention to your school work and focus on a career path. There will be plenty of time for relationships in college and in the workforce.
2006-10-16 16:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for your friend and don't mess with her boyfriend. If he wasn't interested in her he wouldn't be dating her! Maybe later on if things don't work out well between them you and he can date. Don't mess up a good friendship over a guy.
2006-10-16 16:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of men..how good of friend is this?is she worth throwing away over a man who is not man enought to tell a girl he is with he likes another and keeps her stringing along.do u really want to be the "other woman"? put urself in her place what would u want her to do. try not to let a man come between ur friendship. good luck
2006-10-16 16:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked him before she did, then tell her how you feel. If you began to like him after they were dating and if he feels the same way about you, both of you should explain the situation and see if she's okay with it.
2006-10-16 16:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by light_skinned06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see a whole lotta things happening between you and this guy that will hurt her even more if she ever caught yous flirting i think you just gona have to swallow the fact that he is not yours whether you want him and vice versa how could you guys do this to the one in the middle?????????......E
2006-10-16 16:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel in a cautious way and whatever you do, don't not tell her because she'll find out and you won't feel good until you do.
2006-10-16 16:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by HaHaHoHoHeeHee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life and if he is meant to be with you at some point in the future, it will happen.
2006-10-16 16:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You repeat ""Guys come and go but best friends are forever""
2006-10-16 16:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by nunnyned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you not your friend he should tell her that so she can move over and give you a turn
2006-10-16 16:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋