i go down on him all the time, pretty much every time before we have sex, even when we r driving, why wont he do it to me?
2006-10-16 16:25:21 · 12 answers · asked by t l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont' do it for him until he does it for you!
2006-10-16 16:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is very selfish. my husband was the same but it only lasted for a month and he has done a 360 turn. If you like to pleasure him then pleasure him but if you want to feel the same way and he refuses then maybe you should stop. If this is not a problem for you and you can live without it then there's no need to complain but if this is something that you require when having s.e.x then ask him why he won't do it. some men like women to go down on them but are actually disgusted by the same woman and will not go down on her. he is taking you for a fool and you are making him do it. have a chat with him and if you can't live without your pu**y getting sucked then tell him it will not work between you two. we as women always want to pleasure our men but they scorn us sometimes. you will find the right man that matches you in every way. have a serious talk and figure out from there based on your wants and needs what will happen to your relationship.
2006-10-16 23:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are kind of dense sometimes...your gonna have to just tell him. A lot of guys find it "hot" when a girl knows what she wants and makes it known. Just turn it into dirty talk while your in the act. Don't make a big deal out of it. There are a few guys that don't like to do that (fortunately NOT mine...he loves it) that's a bridge ya gotta cross when you come to it.
2006-10-16 23:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Cortney & Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date men who don't go down town. Ask him what the problem is. Maybe he isn't experienced in this area, you could instruct him in the way to go. If it is something he won't do, then let him loose. If you go downtown but he won't then he isn't willing to do what is necessary to make you happy. Tell him to get aboard or walk the plank! get you some girl!!!
2006-10-16 23:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to go down and if he wont then don't go down on him
2006-10-16 23:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him maybe he is not into that and it turns him off where you may enjoy going down on him.......if you dont dont do it.
2006-10-16 23:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his reason why? perhaps he feels its unclean? shower with him, let him wash with you,
of course also you could quit going down on him, he might miss it enough to change his mind....
i was once in his shoes. what changed my mind was knowing how good it feels for her and my desire to please her in every way, motivated me to try, along with gentle coaching from her on what feels good and where and how to do it.
2006-10-16 23:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by K E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he isnt getting any until he goes down on you....thats the first thing i like to do..gotta get her good and wet. yes
2006-10-16 23:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by twisted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably stingy.. jp. maybe he is scared to do it.. if he has never did it befor then he might be a little nervous to do it, he might think he isnt doing it right..
2006-10-16 23:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by sammi_jjp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him --- let him know it will please you
teach him --- as an aside i find that MUCH nicer than the lady going down on me
2006-10-16 23:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him if he wants you to do him then he should do you. my girl dose me so i do her. thats only fare if he wont do you then you don't do him.
2006-10-16 23:32:45 · answer #11 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋