I'm going out with this guy that really like me, I like him to but not as much. Well... theres this other guy that has told me he likes me , and i like him more than my b/f and i think his looks are better as well. The thing is, the other guy broke up with his other girl friend b/c she didn't put out. do you think i should stick w/my current b/f? or go for the other guy?
2006-10-16 16:04:05 · 17 answers · asked by Biscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i heard the reason the other guy broke up w/his last g/f from random people, not his close friends or him. i dunno if it's true
2006-10-16 16:12:47 · update #1
well, ok. so id say this is the 'easiest' way to look at it:
-do you want a hook up or a real relationship?
-if a guy is going to break up w/someone just becuase they didnt put it out whats that tell you?
its saying that thats basically ALL he wants
-are you sure thats why he broke up w/her? a lot of times girls gossip, i think we all know that
-sure, youll get the bragging rights of going out w/a verry hot guy, but is it worth the heart break that may be coming?
-who can you trust. i love this quote. its not famous its just a made up one: love is giving someone the power to destroy you, but trusting them not too
-are you leaning towards love or lust?
-your young & theres so much life left, why not have fun for once?
-but if the rumors are true, are you srue you want to lose it now? to the one you think is cuter instead of the one you really truly LOVE?
i may have left you with more questions than aswers but heres my opinion
stick with your current one and be completely involved with him. block out those other guys and focus on yours. the more you do that, the more you see his strengths, the great things that blind you from him not being totally attractive. your friends dont know anything about them, so listen to YOU. if it just isnt working, you cant force it and its not going to be worth it.
maybe this other guy isnt all about sex, and lets hope they ARE rumors. try the same. connect with him, do the things both of you like to do, just talk and relax together. if he ever gives you pressure to do anything, jump to conlusions. thats probably a weird thing to hear, but its true, guys DO think about sex a wholeeee lot. that doesnt mean dump him, show him that your not going to be like that. people can change.
2006-10-16 16:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by lo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you are making this more complicated than it needs to be. I think you should stay with your boyfriend, the other guy will just break your heart. You even said it yourself that he left his girlfriend cuz she wouldn't put out - that right there tells you what kind of a guy he is. I think his good looks may be blinding you - my best friend lost her virginity to a very handsome guy then he left her for another girl, the girl is heartbroken to say the least. Forget the guy, he is nothing but trouble.
Good luck:)
2006-10-16 23:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't into your current b/f, break it to him nicely and move on. He deserves that much respect I wouldn't go out with a guy who broke up with his previous girlfriend just because she didn't put out. He'll expect the same from you, and sex is not how one wins a person's love and respect. If all you care about is getting into bed with him, by all means (after you break up with your current boyfriend), do so. Use protection!! Don't count on much respect in the morning though.
2006-10-16 23:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were polite enough to awnser my guestion so I will awnser yours in return.
If the "other guy" broke up with his girl because she wasn't putting out then he sounds like a major *** to me. It was 3 months of dating with my current girl before the act of sexual intimacy was ever mentioned. Stick with the guy you have now, unless he is like that other guy. If he is, you are smart enough to know what to do.
2006-10-16 23:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by blakefabian2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as if this new guy is pretty shallow and if he doesn't get exactly what he wants he walks away.
Is that something your current boyfriend would do? If you got a pretty good thing going now I'd stay put, at least don't leave for this other guy.
2006-10-16 23:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know this guy expects to get the sweet stuff. Looks seem to matter to you, so I think you secretly want to give it up for the other guy. I say go for him. If it doesn't work out, then you can woo your old boyfriend back to you. If you are eager to put out, you can pass men around like candy, and you will be in control of them.
2006-10-16 23:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
that means he just wants sex and not a real relationship. stick with your present for now. cause the guy that said he likes you is just gunna use you and throw ya away
2006-10-17 00:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then talk to him, but don't dump ur current one unless ur certain. true love is true love don't mess things up. make sure your positive. you obviously went out with him for a reason right?
2006-10-16 23:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a contest with the two guys, put on your pointest shoes and tell them you are going to kick them in the balls till one of them begs you to quit... the one who holds out the longest (maybe becasue he is paralized) wins to be with you.. I would jump at being in that contest with you, you are worth it.
now answer my questions lol
2006-10-16 23:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sticik with ur current BF. Then it won't be 2 hard on u and ur Bf and u won't break ur BF's heart . but is ur BF nice or what?
2006-10-16 23:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋