ok girls, lets say a guy likes you, what would the guy have to do to help you like him more? (more than just a friend) thanks
2006-10-16 16:01:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like to be made to feel special. so, any type of help such as opening doors, lifting or carrying something for us that kind of thing and also, we like to hear nice things like that sweater really looks good on you or your eyes are so blue, just like the sky. There are things you can do and say to let her know without being a come on obvious thing. Just pay attention to her and be there when she needs you and offer to be helpful. That will let her know you really care. Not just another trying to make it with her guy. Then when she responds in a way that lets you know she likes you it can go to the next stage, flowers for special occasions. Cards or little things that make her feel special. That's how you do it. But take it slow, don't want to scare her if she's not ready. Good luck.
2006-10-16 16:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, make your intentions known to the girl. Then follow that up with a date, dinner maybe. And then see if the girl is into you. Get her to tell you whether she thinks the idea is good. Whatever the outcome, make sure you bring flowers to her the next time you see her.... do I make sense???
2006-10-16 23:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when a guy takes a personal interest in me; be aware of what I like what I don't like. This also helps with communication which is sooo important. Taking this approach is also subtle; that is, its not in-your-face desperate-that is a total turn-off! Just play it cool, listen, be there. I think you will be fine.
2006-10-16 23:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by nicky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be funny! Laughing is always a good thing, and is very actractive! Get her laughing, and let her see what she can have with you. Lots of fun! No girl wants to go out with someone they know they arent going to have fun with! So show her how much fun you can be! Good Luck!
2006-10-16 23:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by sparky_butt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my now-boyfriend locked onto things that I really liked... he remembered things that I would say, and that would blow me away! Also, he heard me say something about one of my fav. movies once, and he latched onto it and slipped in a quote once.. and blew me away again. Clingy, but not too clingy... he smelled great... and what actually got me hooked.... he grew a beard and mustache lol. But yeah focus on the little things; if she's worth your time she'll notice.
2006-10-16 23:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by JessicaMLM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask me out would do it if I liked him. Otherwise talk 2 me a lot and say hi 2 me. Oh yeah, and compliment me. And of course, be ur self.
2006-10-16 23:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing he can do... just be himself and if there's an attraction then there's an attraction right? But I would deffinatly appreciate him if he had the gutts to tell me how he felt. I'd give him a chance.
2006-10-16 23:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Chii666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act too needy or too much like a lap dog, have your own life. Always show her respect and kindness. Always ask her how her day was, my husband never asks me!
2006-10-16 23:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy can only be " a one woman man", I think that would be the best,
2006-10-16 23:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be humorous, talkitive, don't be an ***, be yourself, earn her heart, be thoughtful, nice, fidn her weakness of love, and just be friendly.
Good Luck.
2006-10-16 23:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋