I'm going on 20 years old and still never had a boyfriend, Help please!!!
2006-10-16 16:00:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It should be pretty easy to get a boyfriend considering that they had to write laws to keep men from establishing those relationships with the newly dead. Men are pigs and the proof is found at wal-Marts where huge, sloppy women are pushing baby carriages around. Who are these guys and do I even want them picking up my garbage?
2006-10-16 16:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about it. It is not THAT uncommon to be in that situation (contrary to what society tries to push on you). Since i don't know your exact situation, here are a few points. First you need to take baby steps, depending on how comfortable around guys you are. Ask yourself these questions:
1) Do have have some guy friends?
2) Do i feel comfortable interacting with them on a platonic level?
If the answers to these questions are no. Then work on establishing friendships with guys first. We aren't all that scary. Most people (especially after the high school phase) are willing to talk to anybody. The important thing is, the more guy friends you have the more likely it will be that one of their guy friends will begin to take a liking to you. Work it. I've found the best way to girls is through other girls, and the opposite is always true.
Finally, you can go to the relationship forums at Livingwithstyle.com. I've found them to be extremely helpful for getting relationship advice. Most people will take your questions seriously and reply with good advice. You can also post annoymously there. Here's the link: http://forums.livingwithstyle.com/f216/
2006-10-16 16:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by R S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll be one out there some day. It may take a while. You need to have things in common, and don't start out trashy. Even though we're online now, dating online isn't good. Maybe some of your friends or family can help you pick out Mr. Right. That's how it was with my ex, and we went on good. There's an other thing; Even if a relationship starts great, it still has a chance of ending. it's good to meet guys at school. Just don't put on a show to imprise someone. Good Luck!!! :-)
2006-10-16 16:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest becoming more "open" when talking to the men you find interesting. Don't seem too interested because men will see you as desperate and then you'll be looked at as prey.
Be selective with the men you want to go out with. Find out what they "like" and determine if that's for you. If they seem compatible, maybe give them a little nudge and suggest a movie sometime.
And, as the other people have mentioned, in time you'll find the right one who'll want to be your steady BF.
2006-10-16 16:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt! If a guy tries to come on to you, which wont necessarily be right away, give him a chance and follow your heart, not your family.
I'm still available, by the way.
2006-10-16 16:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm let me think maybe if you go out and try to meet new people and guys and freinds youll probley end up with a boyfreind in less then 4 months
2006-10-16 16:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and get off the computer and grab the men's attention
2006-10-16 16:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by redfire_88dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and do what you like to do. It will happen but it never does when ur trying to hard
2006-10-16 16:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by camorningsurfer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talking to guys. Just whatever you do don't try too hard. ONe day your prince will come
2006-10-16 16:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by LindsayS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hook up with guys from school, work, clubs, anywhere!
just be friendly cuz its just as hard on the guy as it is on u
2006-10-16 16:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.Moo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋