I have been dating this guy for a couple of months and he can be quite mody at times. When we are togeather its amazing. We laugh and joke and listen to music he even sings his favorite songs to me. Oh yea i also told him that i love him. He said that he really really cares.
2006-10-16 15:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by Choo Crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are asking this question, that means he's not doing enough to make you feel secure. Or it may just mean your doubts are real and he really ISNT that into you.
A woman's best guide is her inner instinct. You can read all the books you want, analyse on the phone with friends, but your feelings will be the best judge eventually. Everyone has a first instinct, dont go against it.
There are both types of men, the man who seems to be happy to be with you, and you have a great time (when u made the 'extra' effort to be smart, witty and sexy) yet.... something just never felt right. You find yourself questioning where you stand, does he really like me or not?
With the second type, its the same thing, romance, the rush, the great times, without any of the questions. You just know. You knew it before you became aware of it. And its really so much better with an honest man who is simple, loves to be with you and is carefree about his feelings for you. Its the ultimate rush.
I suggest you wait for it. And never push the envelope on this issue. Let the man first confide his feelings to you, including saying 'i-love-you' first.
Good luck!
2006-10-16 16:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by RealChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one...never be the first to tell a guy you love him...let him say it first! Okay so since that rule is already a bust...Mr Moody has already given you the answer to your question you silly goose...He really cares but...he didn't mention about what now did he. I mean he could be into trees and really care about them or an animal right activist and really cares about them...Rule number two if you haven't had sex yet don't! Not atleast until you have concrete evdience that he more that cares for you. Rule number three if you have had sex already then the answer is clear...the only time he's into you is when he's actually in you...and that right there says it all.
2006-10-16 16:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell when he's trying his best to impress me but I hear a lack of confidence in his voice or expressions.
I can tell when he shows at my door with roses for no reason.
I can tell when he calls all the time.
I can tell when he says right away, let's agree not to see anyone else.
I can tell when he talks about marriage right away and we dont know each other very well.
He into me if he gets possessive and asks for every freakin detail about my day.
I can tell if he wants to spend a lot of time with me...and he does!
I can tell lots of ways. It's not that difficult.
2006-10-16 16:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
def sounds like he's in to u..relax when it comes to that four letter word we females usually say it sooner than them.. they r more guarded with their feelings we kinda wear ours on our shirlsleeves..which is fine.. wait for him to say it dont make a big issue of it b/c when he finally does u know its for real and he's saying b/c he means it not just because he knows u want to hear it....u know they really r into u when they not only hear u but listen to what u r saying and ask u how ur day goes and cares enough to be there when u need them...sounds like u got a winner jus b patient when he's ready to say it u can be assured its for real.
2006-10-16 16:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is into you --- he is not offering something he is not sure of ie "i love you"
and caring for is a good step --- he is being honest so just let the feelings go where they will
2006-10-16 15:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋