My ex and I broke up a few months ago, and although it was an amicable breakup, he keeps calling me. Mind you, when we first got together, he said he was seperated from his wife and a while later, I find out that they are still together, she is still living at their house but that they are unhappy. His home was in Maine and his job was in Mass, quite a commute. So he's with me in MA, tells her he wants a divorce and out of the house because he loves me. I move to PA, to his new job with him and decide that this is NOT what I want. I wanted him but not all of the bullsh!t goes with him. I told him to go back to his wife and he did yet, he is still calling me every week. Even after I told him to lose my number, he is still calling and doesn't understand why we can't be friends. If he wants to make it work with wifey, why is he calling me? He even went as far as letting HER call me to say what was on her mind. Someone tell me is he still in love? LMK what 2 think plz
2006-10-16 15:52:59 · 17 answers · asked by AMN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow.. well, I think he's still in love. An ex of mine from a couple YEARS ago still keeps in touch.. and I can just tell when I look into his eyes how he feels (even though I don't feel that way back.) What I think you should do is forget about this CHUM and move on... I moved on from the aformentioned guy and found the man of my DREAMS. And I never have to share time with a wife or girlfriend. PS- If he loved you enough he would ALREADY be divorced. But I know how hard it is to let go, believe me.
2006-10-16 15:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by JessicaMLM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he wants to be happy himself but wants to keep you as a back up because he's comfortable with you. If you really love him, tell him exactly how you feel, and make him pick once and for all. No more bullshit. It's not fair for you to keep holding yourself back for something that may never happen. If he chooses you, tell him this is the LAST attempt at your relationship. All or nothing. If he chooses his wife, change your number and move on! Life is too short for people like him. There are millions of guys out there that will worship you for who you are. You won't have to share your soul mate. Good luck, and remember, you deserve the best!! Don't settle.
2006-10-16 16:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like some drama you don't need and were smart to move on in the first place.
As for him, he may have some feelings for you but until he can get his life straightened out go on with your own. if he still refuses to stop calling change your number.
2006-10-16 15:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
notwithstanding time you spent with one yet another is a type of investment. the two one in all you invested on your courting. each and every now and then whilst we destroy up with one yet another we the two tell ourselves that "what a waste" or perhaps with the fact that's tricky yet attempt to forget it. yet each and every now and then we comprehend that some thing rather captivating is spoiled in the previous it truthfully got here approximately. Then we sense sorry approximately. He truthfully is regretting and thats the rationalization he shop calling and emailing.
2016-10-02 09:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by duchane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is most likely still in love with you thats what guys do when they cant let go. If he says he wants to be your friend that just means he is hoping youll be with him again. He is desperate and is trying to be with you however he can even if it is just as friends
2006-10-16 15:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by chico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is simply following his normal patterns. He calls you constantly to keep up his self esteem. Time to move on. Enjoy your life. You deserve t
2006-10-16 15:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by julie l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is definitely still in love with you. I did something similiar when me and my julie broke up. Took me years to accept the fact and get over it. Its going to be hard for it to sink in to him, but you can do what me julie did and lay it out rather harsh for me.
2006-10-16 15:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Hitchhiker90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this... did he call you as much when you were together? people want what they cant have. the more you tell him you don't want him the more he will call you. i know it hurts but you will be the one who gets hurt if you stick around. if he is meant for you, you will have him. in the meantime enjoy your life and see where it takes you. good luck
2006-10-16 16:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by jessie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order..the guy and his wife are nutz...and so are you if you don't change your number. Can anyone say OMG...Run Woman Run!
2006-10-16 15:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't know where he stands in his mind. It could be love or you are just a moral crutch to lean on
2006-10-16 15:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Aliz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋