We have a deal that we may cheat on each other if one of us is out of town but I feel bad about it when I do it, I know she takes advantage of this deal and loves it.
2006-10-16 15:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheating is cheating. Where you are makes no difference. You feel bad about it because you know it's wrong. You say she enjoys it? I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that maybe this "deal" was her idea. My suggestion is to get yourselves into marriage counseling ASAP.
2006-10-16 15:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have a conscience, which that isn't such a bad thing. But, then again, if she is willing to just loan you out to anybody when she isn't around than maybe she isn't deserving enough to have you for a husband. There are a ton of men out there who would take your situation totally to their advantage, the fact that you are giving your cheating behaviors a second thought shows that you are a better man, then many others. Maybe it's time to reevaluate this relationship, but that is totally up to you. Good luck.
2006-10-16 23:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably only feel bad because the cuffs are too tight or they forget the lube...so grease up ahead of time and it will be better!
2006-10-17 19:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then its something you need to stop doing if you feel bad about it --- even if you have agreed that it is ok
let your wife know what you are doing and why --- you must be honest
2006-10-16 22:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then stop cheating on her. no i see that you can be sensitive, btu just stop. if you love your wife then go to her and tell her.
2006-10-20 18:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by jopuppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you know it's not right.And you feel insecure about her having other men.
2006-10-16 22:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by seandebra17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat then...and maybe you should change your deal...
2006-10-16 22:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because your conscience tells you its wrong....
2006-10-20 17:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Missylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah ..... maybe because shes your wife and your supposed to be faithfull to eachother?!
Its also like adultry......
2006-10-16 22:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAN DON'T FEEL BAD!!!!!!!!! HMMMMMMMMM
2006-10-16 22:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by sharon c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋