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I don't like myself at all. I don't know where I'm going with my life. I'm extremely depressed. Now ive gotten to the point where I don't even want to be happy anymore. The only reason that I want to get up every morning and go to school is because of a girl that I like. She likes me, but nothings happening. I'm not really good at anything. My grades f**king suck. I hate myself. I don't really know why anyone likes me. I want to kill myself, it seems that only then will anyone truly appreciate me. I know I'm depressed. I'm scared to talk to anyone about it. I hate talking to my family, so I can't talk to them. Everytime I feel sorry for myself I think about all the kids who have it much worse than I do, but then I feel like an a$$hole for pitying myself, which lowers my self esteem more. I need help.

Answer 1

Please seek the councel of your guidance councelor at school. You are scaring me. You do need help but this is not where you need to go to get it.
Call I-800-SUICIDE(784-2433) and check out the web site below they are trained on what to say it is toll free so your parents don't have to know. Please call them now!
I will continue to pray for you and God Bless!

I hope that you called I haven't seen any questions from you lately. Please call if you haven't already! Please write a addition to your story so I know how things went.

Answer 2

You shouldnt feel that way, your growing up into man hood and these years should be the best time of your life. I mean try to do new things. If you don't have friends then make some. Maybe not in your school maybe join a team or if you have cousins that are into good things hang out with them. there are so many things you can do right now at your age the last thing you should be thinking about it hurting yourself. Talk to the girl get to know her you never know if maybe inviting her to a movie or just walking her home from school what can happen form there. also Prayer works too maybe not as fast as we may all like but it does. Trust me I know my son is 13.... It worked for him. God BLESS you...

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear that. Depression is terrible, especially in teenage years. As you grow older, you will be able to tell your depression: "oh, aren't you over already?!?"
The first thing is to think your depression won't last forever! They never do. Eventually they come to an end, even if you don't do anything about that. This thought already gets you a little bit out of that black whole.
Then, think about how you are in a downward circle. For example, you feel down, you don't study, you get bad grades, and then have one more reason to be down. Try to ignore this, little by little. Think of every homework or any little successful thing as a little step up the big black hole. This should accelerate your getting out of it...
You have no friends you can talk to? Some good listener in the group you usually hang out with? Then you probably need to go to a therapist or something, and for no other reason that you need to vent your mind, you need to talk to other people about your problems, and I mean in person, not online.
Your confidence will eventually get stronger. If you don't like yourself physically, then don't stare at yourself in the mirror that much. We all tend to overreact to what we see there.
And finally, if you like that girl and she likes you, try to spend more time together with her. When you see her, de-focus yourself from your problems and focus on her. Smile, talk to her, show that you are happy, or at least glad, to see her. Otherwise, most likely she won't know how much you really like her.

Answer 4

Dude, all you need is time. Seriously, life will get easier for you. All that sh*t your going through being young can feel like a nightmare, but as God says, "this too shall pass". You've got nothing to worry about. Start thinking, and I mean seriously thinking about what you want in life. Whether its a nice car, a nice house, a family, whatever, think about how you can get the desires of your heart and go for them. School is an important part to whether you are depressed, poor, and regretful the rest of your life, or whether your well off, happy, and driven. Focus now and you'll pull youself out of this hole.

Answer 5

Hello,

I just answered you on a similar question you posted. In that answer, I explained how to reprogram yourself. Then I saw this thread too.

I think the suggestion someone else made of calling the suicide-prevention hotline is a very good idea. They can probably help refer you to someone who can help. You need to talk to someone you trust about your feelings. You say you can't stand talking to your family. They WILL care, whether you think so or not. But tell SOMEONE you trust so that you get the help to get over this. There's no reason to have to feel this way, when it can be fixed.

If you are young, some of this may pass with time. But, on the other hand, it's possible that a depressed young man who survives to older adulthood will be a depressed man who uses drinking, drugs or excessive sex to dull his feelings, and may abuse his family members. Even your family doctor can help you with medication should you need it. Get it taken care of now. Your life can be happy and fufilling.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You need to find people to speak with that can offer some unbiased advice. Perhaps an organization like big sisters or big brothers?

Here is an online agency for kids. Choose Counselling and see what they can offer you.

Rest assured, this feeling does go away. Eventually, you will learn to take negative thoughts away and replace them with positive ones. Just try=everytime you think something negative about yourself it replace it with a happy thought..."I am good at ____", an accomplishment or positive trait about yourself. You can be your own best friend or own worst enemy. The choice is yours.

Answer 8

You are not worthless! Please get on some medication because you shouldn't have to go through this. It's embarassing talking to people about depression because you feel ashamed of it, but it is VERY common. There are a lot of kids in your school going through the same thing, but nobody ever knows about it because nobody ever talks about it. I went through the same thing in high school. It sucks. Please don't hurt yourself, you sound like a good person who just needs some help. You are not going to be alone your whole life, there are girls out there and you will find someone who will love everything about you, just try to be patient. You can get through this, please get some help. You deserve better.

Answer 9

By all means go get help. Talk to the school counselor or to a trusted adult friend or family. Go talk to a Doctor and tell him your depressed. They can give you medicine to get you out of your depression. Being a teen is tough but being a depressed teen is even worse.

Answer 10

First, you need to realize that a low self-esteem is a universal problem. You think you are the only person struggling with it, but believe me, the VAST majority of the kids in your school struggle with it too. My mom used to tell me, "Stop worrying about whether or not people like you. Focus on letting them know you accept them." I suggest you send a note to Focus on the Family. They have TONS of resources for people just like you. www.family.org. You can even call one of their counselors.