if you are in this relationship do you think if you have sex in this guy, will he change to love you more or feel not interested anymore
2006-10-16 15:44:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex doesn't make the relationship stronger..if you give a guy every part of you he wont have anything to chase. Guys like a chase..Id give it time.
2006-10-16 15:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating, and how old are you. If a guy is only interested in sex, then once he gets what he wants, he may move on to the next conquest. If you have been in a relationship for a very long time, then it could deepen the relationship. The question is wither or not it is sex for sex sake, or if the relationship is just going to the next level. Just keep in mind that sex will not keep a sinking boat afloat.
2006-10-16 16:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he pressuring you to have sex, even though you've told him, straight-forward, that you are not ready? Why not spend the energy on someone who will be more patient and understanding of you?
My opinion is, if you take the chance and have sex with him, and then he leaves you, you don't need to waste your time worrying what it was you did wrong. By the way, having sex with someone is not the way to get someone to love you, or love you more. I think sex a way for two people who already love each other to express it on the most intimate of levels.
I think, maybe, you should spend some time loving YOU first, and then, with some time, you will be more open to love and loving. Then, when the time comes, you won't have to ask -- you'll just know.
Good luck!
2006-10-16 15:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your relationship and on the guy's initial intentions as a whole. If he is serious with you, yes, it might make the relationship stronger, but if he is not, he will nto even think twice about it.
Especially so, if they are just doing it with you to have fun....
Having sex is not the answer.... Nurturing that relationship is.
2006-10-16 15:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a guy- it varies. To predict that it will have one effect or the other, is just not possible. Not if you want accuracy. Where as it might decrease one guy's interest, although it really depends on his motive for wanting to have it, sex will increase antoher guy's interest in a girl. But again, it depends.
2006-10-16 15:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can make a relationship deeper and more meaningful but also it may be the only reason the guy is with you
its something only you can answer ---- if you feel it is necessary to make the relationship stronger then its not worth doing --- if its something both of you feel is just an extension of the existing realtionship then :)
2006-10-16 15:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy loves you and you know this in your heart then i dont see anything wrong with sex as long as it is mutual. Now sex wont keep a guy with you nor will it make him leave you. So think about it before you give up yuor most prized posseion. Is he worth it? I think your worth more. if he is worth it then you wouldnt have to be worrying about sex with him until the time was right.
2006-10-16 15:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by prettyfalcon197 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the guy as you know there are guys that just want some then they leave, then there are guys that would stick with you through thick and thin reguardless
2006-10-16 15:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends whether or not you and the guy are in love or whether you're ready or not. How old are you?
2006-10-16 15:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know i think its hot and i love sex so ya. it can for me. lets do it some time!!!
2006-10-16 15:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by lightsabre91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋