ok...i've dated this guy for over a year...and at first and even now...we're basically great....but i;m really not all that happy with him any more....i dont want to break his heart or lose his friendship...but now im also developing feelings for one of my guy friends...wat do i do?!?!?
2006-10-16 15:01:43 · 20 answers · asked by shsgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't stay with someone you are not happy with, no matter what the reason, you will become unhappy and begin to resent him for your choice.
2006-10-16 15:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew! Hate when that happens. Let him loose. Just gently. You will probably break his heart and lose his friendship (sorry) but that is how it goes with break ups. If your single and dating...live it up!!! Have fun!!! Once you are married that is over. Hope it all works out girlfriend!
2006-10-16 16:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason for u to be unhappy so u have to say something...if there is something u can do to make your life better then u should do....just brake it to him gently...but it has to be done...dont jump in the sack w/this other guy cuz then you will seem like a tramp...u have to wait and see how things go...especially after just getting out of a YEAR relationship!
2006-10-16 15:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy, then you need to be honest with your bf, and move on, whether you have feelings for one of your guy friends or not, you may be getting these feelings because you are unhappy in your relationship...........you need to sit down and sort it out..... and then go from there. good luck.
2006-10-16 18:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and go for the guy that you have feelings for now.
2006-10-16 15:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you going to stay with him forever so he'll be happy? You deserve to be happy and you're not married to him so if you want out....now is the time to do it.
I'm sure he wouldn't want to be with someone who no longer wants to be with him.
Just tell him you're feelings have changed and you think it would be best to stop seeing each other.
I wouldn't say you still want to be friends....guys hate that.
2006-10-16 15:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't string him along. thats the worst thing you can do if you want to keep a friendship. and what ever you do don't persue the other guy intill you know whats going on with the other
2006-10-16 15:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by tootallclint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you stay with him, the worse you are hurting him. If you care about him at all, then end it now before things get bad. For heaven's sake, stay away from his friend. That's just nasty.
2006-10-16 15:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your heart. Good luck x
2006-10-17 01:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men!
u appear mean...
i wont want to meet ur type- u just lose feelings like pulliing off some dirty pants?
what ever a man sows..
2006-10-16 15:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋