they broke up liek a week ago and everyone always tells me he likes me before they broke up she thought he did to but know shes sure he does she asked me if i was talking to him and i said " no i would never do that to you " and she said " mmhm yeah" we arent that good of friedns anymore because of somehting else that happened but i still would never do that to her even though i do kind of like him .......... what should i do
2006-10-16 14:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whos more important toyou?
your friend or the boy?
if its ur friend....tell the guy to **** off for even trying to flirt with his ex's friend..
if its the boy....its ur choice...go for the boy
2006-10-16 14:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all you gotta do is like him and get over all that other drama, but if she is a real friend that he is totally off limits.
but she prob, already got you figured out that your not a good friend since you lied. thats why you got the MMHM YEAH
BOY i tell ya true freinds are hard to come by!
2006-10-16 22:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by CeKaye L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is certainly a circus, ain't it ? You WOULD do it, you're thinking about it, so you are not that good of friends. How old are you people ? This wouldn't be the first time this situation arose. I've seen people do crazy things for love !
2006-10-16 22:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that same problem. if it has been a while then go for it. sure ur friend will be mad at u for a while but if she is really ur friend she will let it go. if you want to go out with him but dont want her to know than maybe ask the guy to keep it on the down low and let her figure it out for herself. you should try asking her again and see what happens. good luck!
2006-10-16 21:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had and still have the same problem.well my bestfriend of 8yrs boyfriend liked me the whole time and she knew about it but i didn't.they broke up,the guy and me had sex and i got knocked up,then we got married.but now i wished i never married his A**.so don't bother with him.it could end your friendship with your buddy.i still wish i had my bestfriend.now i have no friends.so just remember! a man can come and go but your girl will always be there.
2006-10-16 22:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound so young, try to follow your heart and put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel if it were the other way around? If it's not you he's with it will be someone else, then she will be gone too. STAY FRIENDS.
2006-10-16 22:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by rainbow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell he how u feel about her and her ex boyfriend. if u don't stuff may be more worse as u go on
2006-10-16 21:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it . what for you need somebodies opinion or have to respect what doesn't exist like the friendship.
2006-10-16 21:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GURLLLLLL do NOT GO there leave that BOYalone...if you want to keep your friend LEAVE that BOY ALONE...I don't care if she said she hates him...go on ahead and date him.....I will say it one more time IF you LIKE Your friend LEAVE that BOY ALONE
2006-10-16 21:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by soulfullilangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you go for him it would really hurt your friend or ex-friend, whatever it may be, this could make for awkward situations between you and her in the future.
2006-10-16 21:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by nani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋