Does a woman's weight really matter a great deal to an interested male?

Answer 1

Yes, but 'matter' to one man might mean a voluptuous, not too skinny woman, while another man might prefer a small, thin, petite woman. There are different male appetites. The best thing for a woman to do, is to get herself in good shape, which doesn't necessarily mean skinny, buff, or plump. It means to be healthy, to look healthy, and then she will appeal to men, depending on which ones prefer her body type as well as her personality type.

Answer 2

It all depends on the guy. Some guys do not mind a woman to be a bit more voluptuous than others. I know when I met my now hubby I was 5 ft and 115 pounds. After 4 1/2 years of being together I have filled out a bit but he loves it more. It all depends on the guy and how he feels about you. Either way, never change yourself for ANYONE except yourself. Only make changes in your appearance if you want to and you know you would like it. Guys, weather they admit it or not, are more attracted to a woman who is confident about herself and looks rather than a girl who is constantly worrying about them.

Answer 3

Here is a thought for you. Look how many males answered your question and now look how many females answered it. All we females have to offer is what we 'think' males might think. Only a couple of males answered and they didn't seem too bothered. I'd say if men were that bothered, more would have answered your question by now, so chances are it's not that important. Take care : )

Answer 4

Psychology studies have shown that the "ideal" weight that women think that guys want them to be is actually about 10-15 lbs more than what girls think they should be! Remember this though: looks may be convincing, but personality is what keeps his attention fixed. If the personality isn't there, he will probably look elsewhere.

Answer 5

Depends. Thankfully, some guys like their women thin, some like the ladies with something to hang on to, and some couldn't care less about weight... and conveniently, us women oblige them by coming in a variety of sizes, shapes and colors... even a variety of temperaments!

Imagine if we all looked the same- how boring!!!

Answer 6

it just depends..i look a lot smaller than what the number on the scale says...not to bring race into this but i've found that a lot of white guys prefer thin girls..or atleast curvy ones...but african american guys love curves and can stand a little more weight on girls...i have a lot of black friends and most tell me this im not just generalizing...im white and work out every day but im never going to be a stick but i usually only get attention from black guys...so i think culture has a lot to do with it too...in a lot of starving countries they look at overweight girls as attractive bc they can reproduce as opposed to the US where skinny is pretty...its a bunch of BS but thats just how things are...so yea, it depends on the guy but i'd definitely try working out and eating right to be as healthy and confident as you can be

Answer 7

As a man I have to say if you have a pleasing personality I would be interested no matter what you looked like...But unfortanatly not all men are like me in that way

Answer 8

Yes, it does, to most men. Those men are the type to like someone that is over weight, but not want to been seen with them at all. It's sad, but true.

Answer 9

yes - fat is ugly! sorry but it is....... wanna lose weight? 60 minutes with cardio 4 times per week. it takes 21 days to start a habit, make yours that! working out sucks but looking hot is better, and you'll be healthy!

Answer 10

Matters on the persons desires ... some like meat some dont.... I just like my meat on the dinner plate ;)