We are both 28 and totally in love. He has less dating experience that I do. I have never felt this way before and neither has he!
2006-10-16 13:55:37 · 23 answers · asked by trekkielady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to go with what you feel. If you think it's the right time go for it, you only live once right?
2006-10-16 13:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely yes! Are you kidding?!?!?!! Not to deride or put you down, but I consider a marriage to be something meant for a lifetime. So when you meet someone that strikes you as a prospective life partner, you really need to take the time out to get to know them. There is absolutely NO WAY anyone can get to know someone totally and completely enough within two months to say that they would like to get married to that person. I don't think you can see someone in their true element and in enough varied situations to say with 100% certainty and without a doubt that "This is how my significant other will react in situation A, B, C..." Those are some of the things one should know about their prospective spouse, particularly when it comes to finances, raising children, keeping house, etc etc etc. And not just the person telling you this is how I am, but you see it in enough of their actions/personality that you're sure. You don't want to get married and then discover these things with the realization that you really can't deal with whatever quirks they have.
2006-10-16 14:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by uNrAveLeD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes that is waaay too early. i do not doubt whatever love you have between yourselves but 2 months is ridiculously short. you do not get to know a person very well in just 2 months. wait for a while longer or at least a year or something. if you are really in love you will wait. you don't wantt o rush into things because sometimes you can set yourself up for things that come unexpectedly which you may not like. this is not always true but will it really kill you to wait? get to know more about each other and then when you think of marriage ask yourself on whether or not you want to spend you entire life together.
2006-10-16 14:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you both want to be with each other the rest of your life then whats the big hurry??? , Take some time to get to know each other you never know .. in a couple years you may not like the person who you thought to be so in love with ...Trust me on this... Been there done that!!!! I am with a person now that I have been engaged to for 4 years , I'm not making that mistake again..If you two decide to get married I wish you both the best of luck But I would really think about it first :-)
2006-10-16 14:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, If You Feel It Then Why Not?.... Its Never Too Soon... Its Not Like Your Getting Married Tomorrow, There Will Be The Engagment First... =D
Good Luck
2006-10-16 14:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that most will say that yes, it is soon. And logically I believe it is, but my husband and I knew within days that we would marry. We married after 4 months and if he were still living we would be married 25yrs in Dec. Just follow your heart, and do what is best for the 2 of you, I'm glad I did, never had a regret.
Best Wishes
2006-10-16 14:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it is too early! You are both still in the "newness and excitement of a new relationship". Once you have been dating for awhile and have "settled" in to the relationship, new discoveries will come out...both good and bad! I feel it is best to really get to know each other and give yourselves time to know everything there is about each other. Be sure there is an open line of communication and it is important to always always be open with your feelings. If there is something about the other that bothers you...either something they did or didn't do....tell them how the situation made you feel and allow them to explain their actions and then discuss the situation. You must be sure this is in the relationship. Every avenue must be considered...on both sides...what I mean is...be sure and give yourself time to be sure.
2006-10-16 14:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by shiloh_f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is a beautiful thing. Take it slow and allow it to blossom. You can't rush the bloom of a flower. Learn to savor each new discovery of each other. Keep an open mind and talk about what's important to you both. I wish you the utmost in fortune. You've got time to make sure it's right. You won't need to ask if you listen to your soul.
2006-10-16 14:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead and talk marriage, but don't get married until you know one another well enough to sustain a long-term commitment. Rule of thumb should be at least one year before setting a date. Take your time. You have the rest of your lives to be live as husband and wife.
2006-10-16 13:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should date for at least two years before talking about marriage. This way you will find out if the person is really what you expected.
2006-10-16 13:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys don't rush it! Take your time, you're young, wait a while and get to really know each other. Sometimes in life we gotta use our heads more than our hearts to make decisions. You have the person you love by your side, so don't risk your relationship, just wait a little longer and if then, you're entirely sure than get married.
2006-10-16 13:58:33 · answer #11 · answered by Rational01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋