I met this girl and in a month we were all like, i love i love you too ...and now after 3 months its over??!! I mean I still love her but I guess she does not. I was reading on someones elses question...that 5 months is a SHORT time for a relationship...how many months of going steady is considered good before you can officially say ...we have something here...I am thinking of longterm...I am sleepy so I hope you got what I am trying to ask...
2006-10-16 13:52:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say it when you feel it.
2006-10-16 13:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by trekkielady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know yourself before you can say that. You should know what you need and want from someone and if you are sure you are receiving all that then I guess you could say you love them. But, remember that people grow and change all the time. What love means to them now, might not the same in months or years down the road. I'm not sure of your age so I'll be general about this. If your in your teens then I'd say a few months is probably a lifetime. Don't expect anything to stay the same after 18 and then 21. If your in your twenties then I'd say 3 years is a good start before you think you can say you love someone. People in their twenties go threw lots of changes and growth. It's probably not a good idea to be tied down in your twenties. Use that time to date lots of people. The more you date the more you learn about yourself. Thirties is probably a good age to think about long term commitment. By this time you'll have been threw lots of ups and downs in life and probably have a good idea of who you are as a man or woman.
To sum this up, just be confidant in yourself and know what to expect from a girl/woman.
2006-10-16 14:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has nothing to do with logic or sense. Don't try to find a formula to work with, just trust your gut and be willing to put yourself on the line for love. I know, I'm a hopeless romantic, but it's what makes me happy. I've been with my current boyfriend for less than one month now, my last one was with me for 13 months. I told my new boyfriend the first night that we stayed up talking to each other, literally till dawn that I loved him. Because I felt it then so I didn't see any reason for hiding it. I also knew that I could trust him. All I'm trying to say is that I don't think there's really any rules or protocol to love and when one ought to acknowledge how they feel.
2006-10-16 14:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sager 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess when it feels right. There is no set time. You could wait 5 years and the same thing can happen. You was true to your word and she was not. Go with your feelings.
2006-10-16 13:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends. in the secular world you can date for 5 years and be short. for me 5 months is decents. matter of opinion. whatever works for you
2006-10-16 13:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your on line name doesn't match with what you have written and makes me wonder how to put two and two together to answer your question. My question to you from what you wrote is what in hell did you do to turn her off? Some how you goofed and it's up to you to figure it out and try to make amends with her.
2006-10-16 14:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait tell she ciries for you, needs you, be a best firend, take her to a movie to make her feel good........ And back togeter you'll be.
2006-10-16 13:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any time as long as you mean it and show it
2006-10-16 13:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by lilo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋