My gf is in a confused state. She love me, but she is scared about the future... It is due to recent incident which caused her to lost the sense of security with me. Now she suggested not seeing each other for 3 months where then after she will give me a definate answer. Hear heart says come back to me, but her mind is holding her back.
2006-10-16 13:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believed that there is something that made your gf feels this way. From your description, I feel that if both of you is not going to see each other for 3 months, things may turned for a worst. Anything can happened within these period of times and even both of you reconciled the feelings may not be the same. I feel that you have to talk to her on the matter issue calmly before any decision is being made on this relation
2006-10-16 15:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to elaborate more on the 'recent incident' if it's not too personal. It will help others to give you a better answer.
Basically 3 months is quite a long time. For relationships to 'pause' for that period of time, it's hard to say whether the situation will turn out for the better or worse. I suggest you should use this period of time to hold on to her.
2006-10-16 14:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a lil odd but ppl go through things like that.. they thing they need to get things straight with them first. I mean if you both really love eachother then your love should only be stronger. Me and my boyfriend have been away from eachother for 15 months now. Hes military and got shipped out to Iraq and was suppose to be home in august of o5 (that was the year mark) and he got extended for 120 days so im still not gonna see him till christmas time (i hope) now we had a good relationship in the begining but I think we are closer now then we would have been if he wouldnt have gone. I mean you realize things about your self when your not able to see some one for that long. I think that you are gonna have to answer that question for your self. See where things go.. But i dont know.. only because i dont know the whole situation though. But i mean me and mine are stronger than ever! I miss him like crazy dont get me wrong But thats his job and i understand that and thats why we have gotten closer because he has never had some one that understanding about what he does. I also give him his space and dont bug him about issues i know he dont want to talk about over the phone. I mean we talk about marriage and things like that. we have been together for a long long *** time and i hope it will happen but you know... okay sorry that was a lil off subject. But you know what just let her know that you want her to be able to trust you and have that security back in you! And see where it goes from there.
2006-10-16 13:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by chick_on_a_stick69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could go either way
2006-10-16 13:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by yayaloyaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋