2006-10-16 13:27:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Leave him. My friend just caught her boyfriend cheating on there also and she left him. That was a smart move on her behalf. Talk to him about it but dont be no fool.
2006-10-16 13:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in a relationship with my x boyfriend, I had a gut feeling something else might be going on he's not telling me about, so one day when I had nothing else to do I had gone onto my boyfriends at the time myspace web page and I saw all kinds of comments from alot of different girls and they were personal like they love him etc and I read some of the girls profiles and read what he had written back to them and it was personal comments to them, I saw he was cheating on me through myspace also but that wasn't the only way he was but I asked him about it and he sounded shock I knew or found out or even looked into it but then he was like oh there just my friends and I told him since when do people talk to there friends like that, as personal as they were getting, he was quite. As I already felt, after 7 months I found out not only was he married but he was cheating with 4 other people, before you guys go any further I would start asking some questions. And if you don't feel comfortable with his responses I would break it off with him, as I did with my x.
2006-10-16 20:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... You can do two things, from my point of view...
1) Stay, listen, endure the pain and humiliation to keep the relationship going, albeit at your expense.
OR
2) Leave and move on while you still have the energy and the strength to do so.
Whatever you choose, dont be blinded, he may have a lot of excuses on his sleeves but get a grip of yourself, follow your instincts in this case, and not your heart.
What you see is exactly what you get. And whatever you decide just may be what you deserve.
2006-10-16 20:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really now? why would he make it so easy for u to figure it out? ask urself that maybe he wanted to break up with you for some time now but whats u to look like the bad guy? thats one possiblities (seen it before) funny this same thing happen to my friend gabby who went on his myspace. i told her if you REALLY love him and YOU SEE A FUTURE try to work it out and makes things alright again u know talk. if he does it again break up my other suggestion was to break it off cuz personally i dont stay with a guy who cheated on me
2006-10-16 20:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to confront - just move on.
As long as you take this crap he will give it, and do not expect him to change. Maturity tends to take a long time and many lessons learned by this type of male.
3.7 billion men in the world.
2006-10-16 20:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have the courage to face you. Just disappear. Turning it into a drama will only make you seem like the bad guy.
2006-10-16 21:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question should read I had a boyfriend who cheated on me, his my space tells it all, Now you know what I did
2006-10-16 20:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are absolutely certain he is cheating the best thing to do is to tell him good-bye, and never look back.
2006-10-16 21:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't have the courage to tell you in person so he lets you know through his "Myspace"..... just leave him, you don't have to put up with his bull.
2006-10-16 20:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. Or start a new hobby.
2006-10-16 21:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by nalaredneb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋