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2006-10-16 13:19:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no easy!!!!!! Just do it!!!!!!!
2006-10-16 13:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man,
I recently went through the same thing. Sweet girl, but just stoped being attracted to her. Unfortunately, there is no easy way to go about it. The BEST way though is just to be honest with her. Just tell her you're not feeling it anymore and it's best for both of you if you break up. Like I said, it's not easy for you, but it's the best way to do it. DO NOT stop calling her and act all avoidant and stuff. That is just assinine. You don't want the reputation of being an ***. Tell her you still care about her as a friend, but not a gf and that you don't want to hurt her by continuing.
2006-10-16 13:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Austin there is no way to let someone go easy!
But being truthful and not stringing her along will in the end cause her the least amount of pain.
Who knows she might be feeling the same way about you!
Don't do it before a holiday...that really sucks!
Good luck
2006-10-16 13:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the way you truly feel...
Knowing that you are a guy, you have probably told all of your other guy friends how you feel...it will get to her about how you truly feel if you don't tell her straight up.
Don't be mean to her...just say... I think you are a very nice girl, but I just don't really feel a connection between us. I think we should be just friends...
If she gets offended...so be it...You guys don't seem like you have been going out long anyways...So she should not be devastated...
2006-10-16 13:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she means a lot to you but you just don't see her as more than a friend. She might agree and it could be a mutual break up or she couldnt be really hurt. Try to comfort her as much as you can and break up in the nicest way you can.
2006-10-16 13:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do do not lie to her. if you only like her as friends then tell her you just want to be friends. Better to be honest with her then to let it go on too long and have her really get hurt later.
2006-10-16 13:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit her down and be honest with her. Maybe start out by asking her how she feels about your relationship. Maybe she feels similar. That is always good, because then it isn't one sided. If not, then just tell her that you care about her but don't want to be with her that way. But totally be cool and don't be harsh, or mean. Good luck!
2006-10-16 13:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some guy who likes her and tell him to propose to her. Hopefully ur gf will like him too and break up with u.
2006-10-16 13:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a friend tell her that you don't want to go out with her our go up to her and say it to her and say would you like to be friends.
2006-10-16 13:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to just be honest with her.... Just tell her hey you know i just dont have them feelings for you any more.. I mean your a great person and all but i just dont feel that connection we use to have any more.... just be honest.. its so much easier than lying about it...
good luck
2006-10-16 13:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by chick_on_a_stick69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, the best policy. The flame just isn't there any more, your great and all, but the romantic thing isn't, we need to move on.....
2006-10-16 13:22:09 · answer #11 · answered by advicemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋