What should i do?

Question

My dads a pretty bad diabetic and my parents usually treat me like a piece of dirt. ive thought about suicide and running away even, i have a good life but i feel like crap most of the time. i am 14 and need some advice.

Answer 1

I am 29 and just recently felt like killing myself and understand that it is an insanely huge emotion that is sometime difficult to control. I luckily have a supportive family that I was abel to get through that rough period of life. SO you NEED to get help before it gets to be to overwhelming to handle. You are far to young to feel that alone and i am sorry you have a rough time with your parents. The only excuse for that is that they are only human and parents are just like you and I and they are just older with hopefully wiser through their experiences.

What you need to try and do is try and talk to friends or other close relatives tell them how you are feeling that you have thoughts of ending your life and its not a joke and that you need to be with someone to talk to or just be with and cry it out with. Emotions are really difficult to deal with especially at your age. Another option is to talk to a friends mom or dad that you might trust but since they are not necessarily professionals either always remain guarded and DO NOT hurt yourself or allow yourself to get hurt by someone who is not a professional i.e. teacher, counselor, or doctor. You know if you feel desperate you can contact an emergency room or even 911. Suicide is serious and you NEED help, you ARE worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Everyone your age thinks about suicide and feel like crap most of the time. You are caught in the middle of no longer being a child, and not quite being an adult. It is a big change in your life. The biggest piece of advice I can give you is not to act on your suicidal thoughts. That never solves anything. Sounds like your family needs some counseling. You should start by talking to your school counselor. That is what they are there for. Don't worry, things will slowly get better in your life and one day when you look back on it, you will realize it is a part of growing up. Please don't do anything to hurt yourself. Email me if you ever feel that way and we can talk. ok?

Answer 3

You are 14 ... within ten years any problems you are feeling now will seem distant. and you will still have many years to live. Just work on bettering yourself and finding the positive things in life. It may seem like bunk advice at first but seriously don't identify yourself with things that hold you down. You are free to be and do whatever you like. Don't only look at how 'badly' your parents treat you and how 'killing yourself' is the best answer. Call a childhood prevention councillor, they will be able to work with you on a more personnal level to get you through this tough time.

The world is as amazing a place as you CHOOSE to make it.

Answer 4

Say u have a good life (at 14)? yet, say your folks treat you like dirt? We r confused. Usually the adolescents rebel, somehow, no matter how good or bad their life with their parents may b. Sit down alone quietly, and T-H-I-N-K n I'm very sure u will get over this in a few years.

Answer 5

Sounds as though your father is pretty angry with being sick. I don't believe anyone truly enjoys it, but I do believe people use it to their advantage when they feel that they can get away with it. Have you spoken to your parents about the way you have been treated? If you get them to realize how you feel, one of two things could happen...the proverbial light bulb can come on, and they may be made to feel bad about the way they have treated you, or they can take what you tell them in a negative light and try to make you feel as though you do not know what you are saying. If it was me, I would take my chances, tell them how I feel and hope for the best. The Bible does tell parents not to vex their children. And children should always respect their parents as well. Not to say that children should be disrespected by their parents or made to feel as though they do not matter, but there is always a better way to get your point across and accomplish your goal.

Answer 6

You need to talk to someone right away neither one of these choices you mentioned are options . Sometimes when you are young everything that happens seems like a huge problem , or even like the end of your world . Nothing could be further from the truth . There is so much in life for you to experience . Life is great if you give it a chance ! Please talk to someone like
a school councilor or something real soon so they can help you sort through things . I 'll be pulling for you ! You can also contact me through my 360 page if you want to .

Answer 7

I have felt like you do sometimes too. I am an adult now, but I have felt as if my parents hated me when I was a teen. Your parents love you. I have a one year old daughter and I love her more than anything. There is a special sorta love when it comes to you kids. Try calling the kids help phone they could give you some advice. Maybe if you talked to someone they could help you think of ways to talk to your parents. Sometimes a family member like a grandparent or an aunt can help too. I will talk to you more if you want. Please don't think its your fault. You parents probably have problems of their own and they take it out on you. Thats not right.

Answer 8

hey now, I came from an F'd up fam. and had many of the same thoughts.I left at 13 got brought back and left for good at 16. It's hard to be on your own so young. Try to find some one or something to be a positve factor in your life. Don't let your folks get you down. As bad as it is at home it's worse in the real world. Take it from some one who took that path.

Answer 9

Please talk to your guidance counselor about this. I am very sorry that your life is hard now, but it will get better. It is great you have the courage to talk about your problems and bring them up in this format. You might want to talk to a school counselor or a mental health professional for more advice on how to deal with the issues you are facing now! You are not alone and things will get better with help!

Answer 10

Don't commit suicide and don't run away. You need to talk to someone a priest, a counselor, a friend anyone that will listen and thats all i can think of, hope this helps.