here irtis my girlfriend is moving a little too fast for my liking and I am starting to like another girl but don't know if she likes me
what should I do?
2006-10-16 13:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by lonerkid423 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you mean she's pressurising you to commit or marry.?..if so, then your 'attraction' to another girl is you just looking for a way out. If this is the case then you should really sit down with your girlfriend and try to sort out your difficulties with her. You need to face your demons and take control of how you want your life to be. don't panic and certainly don't let yourself get into deeper water by starting a relationship with this other woman in an attempt to run away or ignore or even change the circumstances you find yourself in. Try to sit down, meet your worries head on and you will eventually make the right decision for you and for anyone else you want in your life. Look out for you.
2006-10-16 13:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them both. Shes just a girlfriend right? You aren't;t living together right? You are most definitely not gonna marry her right? (due to the circumstances you feel now). You are likely both young before 25 so don't get so attached and serious. It's not time for that. If that's not the case then keep in mind about your lust for the other chick. You simply don't wanna settle yet and wanna have more fun with more people. Tell her this and ask her to decide what should be her course of action while still working on being friends. Maybe later you two will go up a new level. Who knows? The point here is to keep things at the peace and be honest while not wasting people's time. Time is valuable. Even more valuable than money.
2006-10-16 13:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by djprall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would move on from your girlfriend no matter what because you shouldnt feel pressured to stay with your girlfriend if you dont care for her the way she does for you. For the other girl, well even if she doesnt like you, you should give it a chance. Most likely, if she does like you she probably wont let you know while you have a girlfriend. If you guys are really good friends, then even if she tells you that she doesnt like you like that you can still be friends.
2006-10-16 13:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by =P luv ya! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump your girlfriend until you find out whether the girl likes you back or not
2006-10-16 13:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them both a chance
2006-10-16 13:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋