i took his car without permission and it got scratched at the moment it happened i called a male friend to bail me up. i told my bf, over the phone that his car got scratched,he was VERY upset
i could not denied that i call my friend , my bf was even angrier. How might he react in person ? he's not aggressive, BUT i don't want to see him. what can i expect ?
2006-10-16 12:56:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should stop being a wuss and step up to the consequences. You took his car without permission and you should at least admit that you are sorry first off. It sounds like you have no remorse. It also sounds like the guy you called was some kind of ex or someone who is interested in you. Would you be mad if he had done the same to you??? Most likely yes. He is probably angry because a car to a guy is like a baby..and you f'd it up for him. You should at least pay for the damage yourself because to fix it with his insurance will screw him over on his deductible and possibly raise his insurance. You are going to have to see him so dont keep running and avoiding the situation. Grow up and accept the consequences for your actions.
2006-10-16 13:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by vidamar 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well u broke trust by taking his vehicle with out his permisson and cars mean ALOT to a man. When is happened and u were scared i understand why u didn't call him first but u should know he loves u more than a car. He will be upset and that is normal. You kinda just have to sit abck and let him vent. The more u stay away the worse it will get and he will think ur avoiding him and u dont care. U need to be an adult and face up to the responsibltiy and pay for the damage any way u can. That is what growing up is all about. it comes with the good and the bad hun but it will blow over i promise.
2006-10-16 13:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You have some major apologizing to do and he has every right to be angry with you. First off you took his car without his permission which wasn't right in itself. Most men LOVE their cars. 2nd accidents do happen (though this one would have been avoided by not taking his car) but you didn't imediatly call HIM and let him know what happened but you called ANOTHER man to bail you out. You have to face him as a responsible person and offer to pay for the damage to be fixed. You can expect a lot of yelling on his part and I can't say I blame him. Even though we're married I respect my husband and his things and would never consider taking my husband's truck without asking him first as he has put a LOT of work into it and his is very proud of it.
2006-10-16 13:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Troubled 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To receive the best response you should always give the most information. You didn't say how old you both are. If you are both young then don't worry about it.
When I hit the wall of the Lincoln Tunnel in New York City with my boyfriend's new Mercedes I thought he wouldn't notice it. Yeah right!! He was very upset at the time but now it is just a funny memory.
It is just a car, if he cares for you he will get over it.
Good Luck!
2006-10-16 13:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by onemelbgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
expect him to ask you questions like why you took the car and why you did not tell him right away and instead called a friend. If I were you, I would pay for the scratch to be removed and be more considerate when taking his car, by asking him first. He needs to understand that he can trust you, so make better decisions next time
2006-10-16 12:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, He will FORGIVE you! Dont worry Hon, Ive been there done that. At least you told him the truth, now you must face him in person. Of course it was wrong to take his car with out his knowing, but youve said your sorry, and if you see him face to face, he will see you really & truly are sorry. If he holds a sour grudge or gets nasty, Then he's not the coolest guy to be with. Just take a deep breath, and go talk to him, he is probley cooled off some.
2006-10-16 13:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is angry because of the scratch, he may value his car more than he values you. If he is angry because you took the car without permission he may regret the fact that he cannot trust you.
Find out for sure and act accordingly meaning show him you can be trusted in future. However if he values his car more than he values you it's time to give him up.
2006-10-16 13:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got the first time out of the way, now face him like a real woman and apologize for what YOU did. People can be angry with you and still behave appropriately, give him that chance. If you really fear for your physical safety, then stay away, but if it is just your pride and emotions that are hurt, deal with it. Good Luck.
Peace.
2006-10-16 13:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by gayman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has every reason to be angry, BUT, there is a better way to express anger rather than yelling. Tell him you are sorry, offer to pay for the damages and then find a new boyfriend. Hopefully you have learned from your mistakes.
2006-10-16 13:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by bebe928 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋