ok. My parents have decided to adopt a child who is younger than me. I am a 15 year old girl. They said it is my decision.. as to which they adopt a boy or a girl. I dont know which I would rather have.. a little brother or sister. What do you think?
2006-10-16 12:43:36 · 8 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It would depend on the age in my opinion. If the child is much younger (less than 3 or 4) then go with a girl. If the older then go with a boy.
Here's my reasoning... if you have a girl that is closer in age to you, you are more likely to have "space" issues. Fighting over bathroom, makeup, and personal space. You are not likely to have those with the boy at that age.
The younger girl you can always have dress up with and be a cool big sister.
2006-10-16 12:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are advantages and disadvantages to both, however if you are now 15, and probably out of the house within 3-4 years, why are they putting this on you?
Tell them it is their child, their responsibility, and therefore their decision. There is way too much liability wrapped around this decision for you to be the sole responsible party.
When it comes time for you to adopt your own child, then you can decide which you want. Until then, stay out of it - either one will be fun for the next few years, then you are going on to your own life.
2006-10-16 20:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for a little brother but that is only because I have 4 younger sisters. Younger sisters is nice but mine drove the me crazy most of the time. It is up to you what you would like.
2006-10-16 19:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with a little boy i havent got any brothers or sisters but yes a boy at least then there wont be as much fighting over clothes makeup etc lol
2006-10-16 19:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by angel_00_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would want a little brother because you can pick on him! lol! but i have a younger sister and 3 older brothers so i would just want to no what its like to have a younger brother! cause yougner sisters tattle a lot and always complain!
2006-10-16 19:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your whole family needs help. What are we getting a new toy here?
So Sad!
2006-10-16 19:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not both?
2006-10-16 19:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both! i love kids...
2006-10-16 19:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋