Recently I spent time with a younger man. He was quite good, but as climax approached he called me "mom" at least thrice.
He wants to see me again. I've kept quiet about it so far. Should I question him? Might he get violent? Or should I politely refuse?
Pl help.
2006-10-16 12:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't be more than 3 or 4 years older than him.
2006-10-16 12:42:21 · update #1
i'm sorry to be cruel but this is really weird..
U r obviously having doubts to be asking this question....
i would seriously consider leaving him because there seems to be something weird going on in his head....
If u r ready to deal with his strange behaviour than u need to talk to him and find out what is going on and why he said what he did.
U do not deserve to be messed about and if u do not want to stay with him than there are many other men....
It is ur life and i hpe u make the right decision....
Good luck!
2006-10-17 09:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best relationships happen when there is open and honest communication from both parties. If you have a situation that makes you uncomfortable then take the time in a non-confronting way to explain what you question or dislike. His way of responding to your concerns will give you insight into his character. He may be kinky and fooling around with his mom also!!
2006-10-16 12:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a great time and you want to see him again sexually or just friendship, then I'd say see him again and have fun but let him know you are not comfortable with him calling you "mom." If it continues, then he is not respecting you and your feelings. Tell him you are only interested in dating a man that acts like a man and to go **** his own mom.
2006-10-16 13:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Robin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who's man liked to do the same thing. One day she came home and he was dressed as a baby in a nappy on the bed. The last thing she heard him say was 'mama' like a baby.
She never saw him again.
2006-10-16 12:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should politely say u just not feelin him and if u take this relationship to long it might get violent but if u do it soon quick and easy then i can say it wont get violent unless he is obsess k good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-16 12:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by danielle! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's Sub-Dom play.
He wants you to dominate him, be bossy and tell him what to do.
Either you are into it or not, if so have a good time, if not just let him know you are uncomfortable with it and move on.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-16 12:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time with a young guy with issues, when you can have a normal guy who won't call you mom?
2006-10-16 12:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, thats a bit disturbing. honestly i think its your decision. but if it was me in your position i would decline his offer. it would disturb me a bit if in bed a man would call me mom. if you like younger men, you should still go for them. just find one that wont call you mom this time. hhah
2006-10-16 12:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by jazz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
any guy who calls u "mom" is too weird..just tell him u think u need someone older
2006-10-16 12:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahaha he called you mom??? wow, never heard that one before! i say u get out of his way! just say u don't want to be with him anymore...and to leave u alone... good luck... mom!!
2006-10-16 12:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋