He always call me when he is thinking about me which is every other week. Then he ask me to come pick him up when he is off to come stay with me for one night then i have to take him back to his house 35 minutes away, the next day. Should I just get over him or keep trying?
2006-10-16 12:21:41 · 13 answers · asked by lashaune2@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. If you want a relationship with a man, find one who wants one in return. You are wasting your time with this one.
2006-10-16 12:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to say this but-get out now, while you still can. your fiancee has some unresolved issues that you cannot solve. Things will only get worse from here on out. It sucks that you love him and i'm sure at his core he is a good guy..but he is also a ticking time bomb. You deserve better. You deserve comfort, love and peace of mind. You should never even have to WONDER whether or not he will hit you, let alone live through it. Or give him an ultimatum-he seeks help for this and the engagement stays on. If not, goodbye. If he chooses this, delay the wedding until you see a change.
2016-03-28 12:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. He is using you. And he's not that into you, if he doesn't want a relationship after 2 years. Don't waste your time on a guy who doesn't want you. You could be missing out on a better opportunity in the mean time.
You are way too good to be used by someone!
2006-10-16 12:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. Don't you want a guy who thinks about you EVERY DAY? He thinks about you every other week because that's how often he wants to have sex with you! And why do YOU have to be the one to go pick him up??? Doesn't he have a car? He's just using you. He is not interested in a real relationship.
2006-10-16 12:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is it about being booty call that bothers you? The guy needs it once in a while and it's only 35 minutes twice. He doesn't charge you does he?
2006-10-16 12:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, sorry to say, you two have not been "lovers" for two years. YOu have been having sex for two years. He only calls you when he needs a sex fix - not because he is having romantic feelings about you. You need to face the truth and dump him, get some self respect for yourself, and look for a nice guy who will treat you right without sex. You have let this guy use you for too long.
2006-10-16 12:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by SusieDarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are a booty call.
If that is what you want to be ... no problem. You got your wish.
If you want more, forget about it with this guy. You are just a booty call to him and you can't turn back the clock.
2006-10-16 12:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, he thinks of you as a piece of ***. 2 years is a long time to not even be boyfriend/girlfriend yet.
2006-10-16 12:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you picking him up? Why don't you make him pick you up? If he does, then thats love. If he doesn't and complain how far it is then he is not the right one.
2006-10-16 12:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its called a bootycall Darling ,stop giving up the vagina and you will see.
2006-10-16 12:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋