and kissing him all over ? i die for a HUG from him !
2006-10-16 12:20:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your need for affection and physical trust exceeds your sexual longings -- this is a common preference, especially for girls.
2006-10-16 12:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gotta understand human emotions. When you hug him you feel close and deeply emotional. You want to begin to kiss his face all the time, you start becoming sexually aroused and intimate, and you just want to hug him forever! Right? Well thats because you are a female. females generally are, or should carry more estrogen than males. Estrogen is the female chromosome that ignites her emotions and her deepest profound feelings. Thusly, you want to hug rather than have sex. now dont get me wrong, you enjoy sex just like any other human being, but if you had a choice, you would rather hug! This is good! Keep this up, this will cause a balance in the relationship. Whereas- he will be more physically apt (sexual intercourse). And you, Emotionally apt. This will cause balance, and he too (if he already isn't) will be physically and emotionally adept to you as you would be to him! I hope this helped, if it didnt, I do apologize! But I think you are doing a good thing, there isn't anything wrong with you!
2006-10-16 12:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amorpheous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In many ways, a hug can be more intimate than intercourse. There is a self-focus in the act of sex that actually tends to separate the couple emotionally. It is only in the aftermath, when there is hugging for example, that the focus shifts completely on to the other person. You like hugs because you want to truly exchange your most intimate self with your bf. I only hope he is mature and sensitive enough to understand this and share in that exchange with you on the deepest and most nurturing level.
2006-10-16 12:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer cuddling to having sex. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Exchanging hugs is one of the most comforting and intimate things two people can do. It shows that you love and care about a person, right down to their soul... as opposed to just loving their body. Sex isn't the only way to be intimate with someone, and often it's not the most effective way either.
2006-10-16 12:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 10 years, love sex, but love hugs and kisses just as much. For us girls, its usually more about the intimacy than the sex.
2006-10-16 12:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by CDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer hugging and kissing more than sex!
2006-10-16 12:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it means more than sex. Its just being that close to someone. That is a great thing. I wish my girl wanted to hug me more often. Its a feeling of being wanted and missed. Its a great feeling.
2006-10-16 12:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because sex isn't everything. love and affection can be even better. don't be confused by this; society and the media make sex to be the best thing in the world. the end all, be all, but really it's not.
2006-10-16 12:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by advicemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because hugs are comforting
2006-10-16 12:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its all good, sex is tiring right? sweet hugs must make u feel better! good luck
2006-10-16 12:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋