She has nothing if not honest for as long as I have known her. I have never seen her lead anyone on about anything even prior to us dating. Now that we have been getting serious, she withdraws. Not that abnormal, I understand, but she won't tell me why or where she's at other than to say she loves me and cares very deeply for me but I don't always "see" it unless we're together. So what gives? Can such a strong woman really be an emotional player? I feel like the only way to really get through to her is to call her on it (which requires accusations that are, so far, unfounded) or not treat her as well as I feel I do. Both options stink. Any of you ladies have a hard time dealing with an honest, caring gentleman? Any advice on getting through to her? Could I be reading too much into this (again)?
2006-10-16 12:18:24 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should bring everything up, and say it has been bothering you. Be nice about and say "I am not accusing you but..." Just try and be sincere!
2006-10-16 12:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the only way you'll find out is to talk with her about it I know that option stinks but I think that it's best that you talk with her about it and find out whats going on.
2006-10-16 19:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are pressuring her for sex and she doesnt want to go there with you.
2006-10-16 19:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋