my boyfriend is 4years older than me and he smokes and got me smoking..i am really in love with him and he cares so much about me but my friends dont trust him and all they say is stop smoking and stop seeing him what can i do i am so attached to him
2006-10-16 12:09:38 · 26 answers · asked by my_hyde21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody can make decisions for you but yourself. Do what you feel is right.
2006-10-16 12:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what your smoking. Smoking cigs does not make you a bad person. Your friends can't relate because they don't know what it's like to try to quit. If you love him, stay with him. Your friends are probably jealous of your love and are looking for some stupid reason to get you away from him and to join in their misery.
2006-10-16 12:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone loved you so much they would not encourage you to do things that harm you, whether they do them or not. You have to know that your self worth can not be determined b who cares for you. If things are not healthy between the two of you, you need to be a woman and walk away/ There are better men out there, trust me.
2006-10-16 12:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by mahdiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really hard. But if he really loved you he wouldnt be gettin you to smoke and stuff.. you can stay with him as long as you promise your friends that you wont do things just because he makes you or wants you to.... you can still be together even if he smokes and you dont and stuff...
2006-10-16 12:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for the hills, because if he really cared about you he would not want you to put anything in your body to harm you, He would want to take care of yourself the best way possible, so you can love and be healthy for the both of you....
Lots of sweet loving and adoring men out there. don't waste your time on someone that could care a less is you end up with lung,throat cancer...
take care of yourself..
2006-10-16 12:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by LeeAnne F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop smoking and make your own decisions based on what you feel in your heart and mind. But stop smoking never the less.....
2006-10-16 12:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction is that if he cared so much about you he'd have seen to it that you DIDN'T smoke. Based on that you'd better git while the gittings good 'cause he's bad news. You're not attracted to him. You may be addicted to him but addictions like that can be broken--and should be.
2006-10-16 12:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well-it sounds like your friends are looking out for your best interest and your bf is not. I would bet there are several other things that you have done just to make an impression on this guy. I agree with your friends.
2006-10-16 12:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont smoke... it will kill you,
make a suggestion to him that stop smoking.if he really cares about you, he MUST stop smoking ...
2006-10-16 12:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im attached to my boyfriend and trust your got feeling. If you want to be with him then be with him. Follow your heart thats what i did
2006-10-16 12:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Mercedes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop smoking and let the rest work out for itself
2006-10-16 12:12:03 · answer #11 · answered by boss4292006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋