Why do i attract all of the nerdy discusting guys???
2006-10-16 12:07:17 · 21 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im tall 5'7", long blonde hair, slender, very funny social disposition, lots of popular friends and some nerdy ones, i am intelligent, i dont dress slutty or really conservative, very much in to classic rock,....and their not just nerds their the pompus slimebally U-G-L-Y nerds
2006-10-16 12:14:03 · update #1
Are you very intelligent, "nerdy guys" usually go for intelligent girls. Or if your average intelligence then you are a very caring worm hearted person who doesn't follow suit with the so called "in crowd". Nerdy Guys are a good catch,caring thoughtfull and Clever. Your lucky that you don't attract the low life's. Attracting these types of guys is a compliment to you, you must have a very caring and good natured Personality.
2006-10-16 12:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a questions of why you attract nerdy, disgusting guys, it's a question of how confident you are in yourself...
Guys like confidence. If you show that you have the right attitude, personality, and can throw on your hot jeans and strut, the nerdy ones will not touch you. They are too intimidated by strong women...especially while they're young.
But you have to think about your standards as well. Are your standards for guys what they really should be? Or should they be lowered.
And get to know the nerdy ones, maybe they just need that little bit of change to be hot. I've seen it before. You can't be shallow. Look deeper.
2006-10-16 19:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can take it as a compliment ..opposites attract so if they are nerdy and disgusting you are beautiful and preppy.in the other hand in 10 years they may not be nerds...Leonardo DiCaprio claims to have been a nerd,bill gates the richest man in us was a nerd..don't be so quick to judge you won't be young forever..as you age your taste and values Will change and you may end up with a nerd turned sexy dude don't sweat it
2006-10-16 19:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun its not just u every guy weather nerdy or cute is going to look at a pretty girl so take it as a compliment
2006-10-16 19:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by laase12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... because they are all usually single. The great catches, that want a relationship can have one, and they are usually taken first. It's hard for good looking women to find great men. It's easier for men to find a great woman., It's a numbers game, and it depends on where you live. I live in a city that the ratio is 8women:to every 1man. The ages 25-40. Great odds huh........??
2006-10-16 19:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely because your a nice polite girl. even to those who are nerdy and discusting, your still nice too. and there are not many out there that are nice to those people. so when a girl like you comes around and they see that your being nice to them, they jump onto the opportunity and they think that you must like them.
2006-10-16 19:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they find you attractive. Don't dis the nerds just yet; they might prove to be a good match.
2006-10-16 19:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me... Try hanging around jocks, and mabey the nerdy ones will be scared away.
2006-10-16 19:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by dark.axxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you present yourself physically.Do you wear nerdy clothes or act like a geek also.
2006-10-16 19:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be happy girl just think those nerdy guys grow up to be rich guys
2006-10-16 19:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋