this is a problem..... im a guy who has got no game (meaning i dont know how to have a normal conversation with a girl or even fllirt) i thought that the girl can see whether you are the dating type or the just friends type within like 10 seconds of talking to them?? is this true?? Like if you say something flirtacious then your the dating or fling type but if you say something nice or friendly then your the friend type ? if this is true im in more trouble than i thought ?? but whats a guy to do when he doesnt know what to do or say anything around a girl ... .. its like at best we just end up conversating about some other stuff... it might be intersting to her but its not really fun .. fun.....
2006-10-16 12:06:16 · 16 answers · asked by david 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be more flirty
i was like you before, didnt talk to girls much, really shy
but now, i talk to a lot, and friends with a lot, and yeah, you get the point
2006-10-16 12:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of girls are you trying to attract? Most girls would prefer a guy that knows how to talk!!! "Come on" conversations are out! Real conversations are in! Have fun, and lighten up, if the girl's not interested, she's just not your type. That special girl will come along, so don't give up. Practice conversation!
2006-10-16 19:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself you should be able to know if someone likes you or not, if your not sure why not ask her, it's worth the try if you really like her.
Remember if she doesn't like you for who you are there not worth going out with.
Talk to her about what interests you what you do for work maybe your family, ask her what she likes you never know she might like the same things, just by saying hello can make a good start to get to know someone.
Teresa.
2006-10-16 19:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Minnie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO CARES WHAT THEY THINK!!! Brother just have fun. youll end up in a circle of friends that will have some girls in and by just being yourself you will attract the girls. Dont go out worring about every single word you are saying to her. DO think before you talk but DONT worry about every single meaning of every single word. Just enjoy yourself and have fun... the rest will follow.
2006-10-16 19:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girls can kinda tell. But you just gotta know what to say. Or sometimes there just not interested. But if you just click then you will know it. I guess it just depends on the girl. But girls do like compliments. Just ask the girl what she wants to talk about.
2006-10-16 19:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by lîzzîÑ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.Maybe you're trying to hard,and girls can tell when a guy is trying to hard for her to like him.Loosen up and if a girl can't accept how you are then you don't need her.Trust me
2006-10-16 19:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can i say you can just tell, although I'll admit I'm not really into to really out going guys I'd rather be with a more laid back guy who doesn't feel the need to impress me. and i also have a habit of falling for my guy friends.
2006-10-16 19:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like to talk about themselves. You have to listen intently and try to relate to what the hell is coming out of their mouth. Good luck.
2006-10-16 19:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breathe and relax. You probably have more game than you think,most people do they just tense up and get nervous.
2006-10-16 19:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by kreamer289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just chill out your okay all you have to do is just be yourself and whoever that girl may be she shall like you for who you are
2006-10-16 19:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋