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okay I'm in high school!!!Andrew so cute, really like him but the only problem is that we are in different groups way different i'm preppy/cheerleader and he is goth. I don't think it would work out but then again i want to try got any advice to get him to notice me??? or whatever u think i should do?

2006-10-16 11:34:19 · 21 answers · asked by Alexia 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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There was this girl who worked at McDonalds that I thought was totally hot but I work at Wendys...I really wish that I could date her....Im just so scared..what would the other Wendy workers think? Please help.

2006-10-16 11:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should never not "like someone" because they are different from you..its how you feel not how others feel or the preppy kids would view you is important its about how you really really feel..If you are attracted to Andrew and want to see if it'll work go for it ...the old saying goes opposites attract and there aren't much more opposites then Preppy and Goth..don't be who your friends want you to be ...be who you are ..dare to be different it will make you a happier person in the long run

2006-10-16 18:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 3 · 0 0

In 2 years, none of these groups that seem all-important right now will exist or matter. And (unless you want to be a townie) you probably won't be friends with any of these people after 5 years. Take a big step in your own personal and social development and learn how to reach out to people who may not immediately fit the profile of what your friends consider to be "cool". Ask him out somewhere that he'll be comfortable (ie. not a pep rally) and do it when you can talk to him without all of his friends or your friends hanging over your shoulder. A movie, a concert, dinner, whatever.

2006-10-16 18:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0 0

ok i saw these movie called grease and it sounds like what happened in the movie is happe\ning to you first thing you should do is start singing in public with your friends for some reason your friends will join in.Then you must change from a preppy/cheerleader to a goth then you must get a red car that can fly.i hope this helps.

2006-10-16 18:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How about the direct approach? Just go up and say hi. You'll find out after high school that the cliches break downa nd you will boraden your horizons on who you call friends, so don't just check him off the list because you have different friends and influences now.

2006-10-16 18:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by vonwasden 3 · 0 0

Hmm...Sounds as if neither of you would normally talk to each other or if you do it's really weird jaja, so find a way for it not to be weird like...okay first find a way to get near him and cary a book or something and ask him like hey have you read this? if he says yes then ask him what he thought about it and if he has any recommendations as to what to read or you know things like that... and so after that everytime you see him say hi!:) hope it helps;)

2006-10-16 18:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Delilah 2 · 0 0

I would just start a conversation with him, your a preppy cheerleader you should be able to kick start the chatting and you'll know if he is into you. Good luck!

2006-10-16 18:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 1 · 0 0

Just go up and talk to him. Try doing it after school without your friends or his friends if you're afraid of people giving you a hard time. My mom always used to tell me that I needed to stop worrying about what all my high school friends thought because once I graduated I'd never see them again. I used to think she was full of crap but she was totally right. Who cares what you're friends think? Go for it!

2006-10-16 18:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by crazydaze 1 · 0 0

if you're a cheerleader, i'm pretty sure he will notice you. just be yourself, act natural and dont try too hard because it will also not be so good to look at. remember goths are people who doesnt care how they look like, so just be yourself. Ü

2006-10-16 18:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by deedee 2 · 0 0

It's not gonna work out in high school.If your willing to jeopardize your reputation then go for it!!But think about it this is high school and it's okay to think he's hot but will your friends and everyone else see what you see..If you don't care what anyone thinks (and it seems you do)..then go for it.

2006-10-16 18:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by FLORIDA 4 · 0 0

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