my sister is a 27 year old that is immature , has no responsibilitys , and that doesnt put her priorities in the right place . and im sick and tierd of acting like the older sister when im only 18 and have problems of my own , that i have to cope with on me own .
shes driving me bananas...please help...
2006-10-16 11:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Speaking from a different prospective I know it can be annoying, I am the oldest sister and I see my sisters messing up all the time and I know it bothers you but it wouldn't bother you so much if you didn't care, so maybe you should tell her that in a nice way, or if that doesn't work use child psychology. Bring it to her like a problem, don't use her name and take responsibility for your feelings [i.e. i have this problem with watching mistakes being made and I feel as if I have no control over the problem.. do you think you could help me? etc etc] use you imagination but usually this makes her think and try to solve the problem and usually they improve and it makes her feel like it was her idea...
2006-10-16 12:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by kArMaRiFiC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just said above!
2006-10-16 18:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pick up her slack do what you have to do and get on with your life
2006-10-16 19:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by callie girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont help her
2006-10-16 19:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by monique... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋