The first guy i loved, although he said he loved me, i knew he never did love me back. It was a horrible situation and i ended up hating him and fightin with him all the time so it's not like i'm holding on to something that i miss because i don't when i say...over the years since this, we have both grown up alot, and we have now become best friends. We have both had other boyfriend/girlfriends but we have always been thre for eachother during them. Now recently, after it split with my boyfriend, in a way for him, i thought i wanted to date him. But now i'm having doubts. I thought it was what i wanted. Please don't say it's because he was my first love and im holding on to something bla bla because we are completely different people and the relationship was awful. It's like i have slowly started to drift away from him and i don't know why. I did it with my last boyfriend who loved me loads, and its driving me crazy!=(
2006-10-16 11:19:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your problem is that you are a female. No one knows a female mind not even a female. It's not your fault that you was born this way. Try doing something out of a female normal life, try thinking about what you are doing and then take responsibility for your own actions. You are the reason why your boyfriend left you so stop blaming everyone else for your shortcomings!
2006-10-16 11:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends i think on how old you are, meaning if you;ve really had a chance to see what else id out there. I know exactly what your going through, same cituation with my gf/friend for 5 years. Obviously no matter what, through the fighting there's still a deep care and love between you two. What i did myself was just stay single, and wait for the love to force it through. If its going to happen it will happen. Wait a lil while, if nothing happens then just move on. But you can still cherrish him as a friend.
2006-10-16 18:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welllll
it might be because
he's like your "relationship fallback", the one you go to when you're in emotional pain
and that occurs with friends usually more
so you might be thinkin of him as a friend more than in any other way because you talk to him, and you're there for each other
hope i helped
tell me if u need more help
2006-10-16 18:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him, play the field a bit more, why go back for some more of what didn't work out in the first place.
2006-10-16 18:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, give him another chance. I'm sure he deserves it.
2006-10-16 18:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what was the question?
2006-10-16 18:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋