2006-10-16 10:44:44 · 13 answers · asked by dani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, whatever your reason for not doing it, I'm glad to see that you didn't give in. If he is a decent guy he will respect your choice & not try to get you to go against your will. Every relationship will be tested & this is it right here...will he he respect you & work on building a meaningfull relationship that loves you & honors you & will make sacrifices for the sake of making you happy putting your needs ahead of his? That would make him special if he did...or he might just be in it for the fun & games, in which case you should let him go...and look for someone more suited for you...anyway- good luck...hope it works out...remember don't sell out your principles to keep him or you might loose him & your self respect....bye bye
2006-10-16 11:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he dose, then that's really all he wants from you any way! Then the question becomes, Do you want some one who just views you as a piece of meat? If that's all he is after, You don't want him any way! He'll most likely try to justify it with so much bull, as guys do!
The bottom line is, if your not ready, don't do it!
2006-10-16 18:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you arent ready then dont let him pressurise you into it, if he breaks up with you over it then let him he doesnt respect you anyway and isnt worth having around, who is to say that if you did have sex with him he wont break up with you after he gets what he wants
2006-10-16 17:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by sadistic_bondagelover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to .. dont! just tell him your not ready yet! he should understand if he really cares about you. if not he's not right for u at all.. sorry but what kind of boyfriend would break up with you if u dont have sex with him!? he would be a jerk and so inconsiderate!!
2006-10-16 17:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does Oh Well!
Never let anyone push you into something you aren't
ready for.
That's a sacred and special thing to be shared with someone you
love and loves you back 100%.
2006-10-16 17:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your not ready and that he shouldn't feel pressured into haveing sex either. So why don't you kids forget about adult matters and go play tag or something.
2006-10-16 17:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by J D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU AREN'T READY THEN YOU AREN'T READY. SO WHAT IF HE BREAKS UP WITH YOU??? YOU SHOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT JUST TO HOLD HIM??? DON'T KID YOURSELF, HE'LL BREAK UP WITH YOU EITHER WAY... DON'T DO IT TIL YOU ARE OLDER AND READY!!!
2006-10-16 17:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to do it and he leaves you for it, then he was not worth it at all.
2006-10-16 17:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait till marriage
2006-10-16 17:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to do it then dont worry about it!both can decid that and he wont break up with u!!
2006-10-16 17:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by ssonic2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋