Is it posibble for a guy to be gay but not like guys?

Question

I like a guy who has been with a guy in the past. He calls himself "sort of" gay but he says he doesn't like being with guys. And he claims to be in love with me. What do I do?

Answer 1

Maybe he's bi sexual....Maybe he's fighting his homosexuality by falling for a woman... My brother married at the age of 21, had 3 kids and stayed in the marriage until his wife finally left him 30 years later. Before he got married he had sex with other boys in his age group, has had sex with a few men and a few women too. Now he's 65 and dating women again, but his eye often wanders to good looking young men. Maybe your friend is simply not willing to place himself in a box labled "Heterosexual" or :Homosexual"...Maybe he just lives each moment of his life as it happens. Right now, it would appear that you're the one he wants.

Answer 2

Maybe he was just experimenting. There's no such thing as sort of gay. The question you must ask yourself is are you in love with him? and if so, can you get past his past?

Answer 3

whilst i become youthful i assumed greater in containers, i become in basic terms into masculine adult men and hated the flamers. Then as I won greater journey with existence and with human beings, I see human beings interior quite than out. nevertheless, I do desire adult men that are greater like me; I advise a exceptional form of psychologists ought to work out that loud stereotyped habit as an marker for an extremely risky guy or woman, and characteristic you seen those bois combat? The masculine gay adult men commonly combat like adult men, punches, we adore to kick too; the femmes, all bets are off. it quite is punching, slapping, hair pulling, tearing clothing, throwing crap, tries to completely disfigure one yet another ..... Yeah in my journey i could quite date a sane guy or woman, yet whats up if there is stable bussy then we are going to communicate. :-D

Answer 4

assuming your a girl, I would say dont let yourself fall for him because that situation is trouble. He will break your heart with his inability to decide what it is that he wants form you or himself. Be careful your heart it too valuable to be played with move on to a guy that knows hes straight and loves you and all of you!

Answer 5

Hello, yeah he's probably bi, which means he's at high risk for HIV, hepatitis & so on- that's two good reasons to move on & find you someone else whom you can have meaningful relationship with. You stand too big of a chance of getting your heart broken with this guy......good luck, bye bye

Answer 6

yes defintnly i know it sounds really weird but A Man can be attracted to a man but no wanna be sexual with them or in the past could have been sexuall and still thinks about doing it again but feels hes more in to women..........make sence?

Answer 7

"being with guys"

Does this mean sexually or just he doesn't like guys

only 35-40 % of gay couples participate in any sexual contact

it's mainly a compainionship issue.

if he's in love with you he could be also be bi-sexual he likes both sexes

Answer 8

I'm guessing he's bi.

I knew someone that was bi and said he'd been with guys before but he'd get scared and go back to women...

So, whatever floats your boat I guess...good luck! ^_^

Answer 9

Hey, I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Which works out pretty well for me, I must admit.

Answer 10

Well that sounds like he is Bi I think I would give it a shot keep your gaurd up for a while and watch him