my fwb (friends with benifits) asked me to go on the pill so that we can do it whenever we want instead of wipping out a condom!! do you think i sould!!!??? im 16and i think that it would be okay but i want other ideas!! thanks!!!
2006-10-16 10:19:40 · 23 answers · asked by swimgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go on the pill but dont tell him, so he still brings condoms. if u ever decide your at the point that u dont wanna use one, or maybe there is not one around, then you will be safe. but if he is not your man, i wouldnt go there because who knows what else he is up to. no man is worth catching something
2006-10-16 10:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by yankeesarethechamps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey swimgirl,
While some things to consider about the pill is all the side effects they have, which can be pretty serious such as cancer, loss of SEX drive and can complicate your chances of having kids in the future. I would suggest an IUD insertion. Go to planned parenthood and it's really cheap. I use it and it is way more convineint than a condom or pills.
2006-10-16 10:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by dolcevita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think at your age you should always make him wear a condom. especially since fwb doesn't appear to be your boyfriend/love of your life. Although, you should consider going on the pill because it has a higher contraception rate (99.9% compared with 97%). I dont think you want to get prgnant at your age or get an STD so just stay safe.
2006-10-16 10:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Clive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, at sixteen you're too young for recreational sex! But I know that's not going to stop you....so you are better off using condoms for goodness sakes....If you were to get HIV,genital warts,hepatitis,herpes,or some other- who knows what , then the party's over ,so be carefull...ok? remember staying healthy is more than just luck....bye bye
2006-10-16 11:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm. you should not use that as your only means of protection. you should also use a condom. especially since you don't have an exclusive relationship with this person. The best would be to abstain from it till your married. I only say this because I was in your position in high school, many years ago.
2006-10-16 10:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by chellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honeslty i dont think u should because right now these days u cannnot trust anyone and u never know who else he might be running around with that u dont know so to be safe then sorry use condoms a days of pleasure is not worth ur life or body think about it reallly
2006-10-16 10:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should go on the pill,so that u dont pop up pregnant..BUT u shouldnt have a fwb cuz ur to young to have sex.......
2006-10-16 10:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have something so be careful if I were 16 I would be on the pill anyway but make sure you understand it doesnt protect your from everything just pregnancy so be careful!
2006-10-16 10:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really still want to do it, i think you should go on the pill, but still use a condom, the last thing you want is a baby with somebody who doesn't even really love you.
2006-10-16 10:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, havent you ever heard of AIDS, not just stds, im 15 and not even as close as stupid to you!! your going to ruin your life and youll only have youself to blame!!
2006-10-16 10:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by freepeace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋