ok this guy asked me out today and when i told my friends they were kinda upset and said that they dont like him and that i shouldnt go out with him, but i really like him but i dont want my friends to hate or make fun of me for going out with him. what should i do!! plz help me! :'(
2006-10-16 10:08:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look do they not like him because how he acts or just because they think he's not cute??? well i think you should go out with him if you really like him. they should like you by who you are. p.s. maybe they are jeleouse because the don't have a bf. well good luck with that!!
2006-10-16 10:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by YαYα Cαяяiℓℓo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... your friends probably have a reason for not liking him. Unless he had a history for breaking girls hearts or something I don't see a reason why you should let him go just for your friends. Your friends are great, but if they were so close to you they would let it go and not turn against you 'just' because you decided to go against there advice and keep him. I mean, even if it was a mistake in the end, people learn from mistakes, its what makes us stronger, right? Exactly.
2006-10-16 10:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by lxlnightmistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making up your own mind. If you like the guy, then what your friends think shouldn't matter. On the other hand, if you trust your friends' judgement, and if you belive that they are only looking out for you, then maybe you should be careful with the young gentleman in question. But ultimately, it's up to you.
2006-10-16 10:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Simon Templar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him then ur friends should be happy 4 u or else they aren't real friends. if they KNOW that the guy has a bad rep or is not a nice guy then maybe they r right and u should listen to them. if they just don't like him 4 a stupid reason then so what with whatever they say. its up 2 u!
2006-10-16 10:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Hopeicouldhelp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of which you're a intense high quality guy, yet I see you and me as a pal. (Insert motives so he can comprehend). possibly some thing can arise between us yet for appropriate now, i like how we are friends and a courting appropriate now for me, isn't what i'm finding for as we communicate. If he's a huge pal, he will comprehend. he gets harm, yet you purely be a pal and this could help him to heal, your rejection.
2016-10-02 09:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the dude then go out w/ him who cares what your friends think cause ur friends should respect whoever u go out with.
UNLESS they know something about the guy and his past that you don't and they are tryin' to protect u then listen but it doesn't sound like that so do whatever u wanna do.
2006-10-16 10:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your friends, who are they to make those decisions.Go out with him! You'd be a fool to not go out with him just because of your frineds unless there was another reasdon. But you said you really like him so go for it!! Good luck Have Fun!! =)
2006-10-16 10:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why they don't like him. If he's been a jerk to girls he's dated in the past, maybe your friends are just looking out for you. Talk to them about why they don't want you to go out with him. If you decide to go out with him, try making it a group outing so your friends can see why you like him.
2006-10-16 10:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1: Why don't they like him?
#2: If your friends told you to jump off a bridge, would you?!
Find out if your friends have a reason for their feelings about him. If not, you have to do what's right for YOU, not them. If they're really your friends, they'll respect your right to make your own choices.
2006-10-16 10:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends dont have to date him and if they are your friends they will get over it later. But be sure to askwhat it is about him they really dont like and then if you do decide to date him tell your friends taht you just had to see for yourself if what they said about him was true maybe it will be and maybe it wont but find out for yourself
2006-10-16 10:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do your friends dislike him? Is it because they think he will hurt you? or cheat on you? or do they know something about him to be true that you don't know? Ask them why THEY have a problem with him...If YOU want to go out with him, then go for it...YOU have to find out if it's a good thing for you...
2006-10-16 10:14:28 · answer #11 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋