Who should i choose, my x or my new girl?

Question

I HAVE BEEN SEEING THIS GIRL FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS NOW AND SHE IS GREAT EVERYTHING I WANT IN A GIRL.
BUT WHEN MY X FOUND OUT WE WHERE GOING OUT NOW SHE WANTS ME BACK, ME AND MY X HAD A 5 YR RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE SON TOGETHER, WE HAVE BEEN SEPERATED FOR 3 YRS., BUT NOW SHE SEES THAT IM MOVING ON., I STILL HAVE FELLINGS FOR HER BUT ANOTHER THING SHE HAD A BABY BY SOMEONE ELSE AFTER WE SPLIT UP. IT DOSENT BOTHER ME BUT IS STILL A ISSUE. IM VERY CONFUSED

Answer 1

dont worry bout your x go with the girl that you love man,
but you need to have a part in your kids life.
its very important to be apart of their life

Answer 2

No. Plain and simple. Your ex sees that you're moving on and is feeling a little jealous. She doesn't want to feel replaced so she is trying to get you back. It's a trap. If you go back into this relationship, most likely the same thing that ended the previous relationship might happen again. You've moved forward and after 3 years, why now and why when you are in a new relationship? Although I do feel that it is important that you have a part in your son's life, but you don't need to be with her to do so.