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Question

Why when guys have the perfect girl for them, they always endup leaving her for the one that's not worth it?
In my situation, I have been in a couple of serious relationship for preatty long time and it seem like they always leave me for the wrong girl. "Trust me I know they are the wrong girls".
I work in a major hospital and I am very known almost by everyone there, for my looks & smartness. I am very independent & smart. I am very ambitous, funny and sometimes silly. I believe my body is very attractive.
I wouldn't say that I am perfect, But I believe that If I stop traffic then I must look good. LOL I am a very good girlfriend material, the only problem with me is that I am just too trusting and not jealous at all. I believe that If i don't see or know anything then there is no need for me to be jealous.
My major problem is being too trusting... i just trust guys too much and they take advantage of that.

The ralationships have been for over 4 yrs each. i am very outgoing and I believe I am fun to be with. Trust me I have not given it that easy. Just to say maybe after the 1st yr or so. They have all been really serious relationships, its not like if we were dating.

Answer 1

Thanks for stopping.

Answer 2

I think they leave you, not because of your body or other things, the only thing I think that's making tehy leave you is that you are not jealous at all, they may think that you just don't care about them and I don't know if this is a reason too, but your independence may frighten them, because men are used to be the ones who protect, and take care of the girls. Try this, even when you can do something, if your boyfriend offers help, let him do things for you sometimes, he'll feel more needed, and with this, more auto trusting.
And try to be a little jealous, just to show him that you care about him.

=)

Answer 3

Your problem is that you probably go for the good looking guys too. Most good looking people go for other good looking people and think that is what it takes to be happy. But when they are not happy, for whatever reason involving you or not, they think it is their relationship that needs to change, so they bounce from relationship to relationship trying to find something they can't. These people see relationships as making them happy and not a true connection and therefore really don't get to know you that well. I think you should get to know the guys you date before you really 'get together' and see if they are capable of true, unconditional giving love.

Answer 4

being pretty and attractive and knowing it is a sign that people are full of themselves too.

Guys like down to earth women. We also respect the fact that they are independent and can get what they want for themselves without asking us for it as well. We only want open communication, genuine friendship and someone who won't judge us but accept us as we are.

Being too trusting isn't a bad thing. We won't take advantage unless you do first.

Answer 5

yeah you kinda give of that vibe that you are full of your self men tend not to like that so you may think are perfect maybe you should do some soul searching within your self. yeah well dont trust people as much and learn to take your time yeah must of all if you are very attractive

Answer 6

Some guys believe once they get between them legs it's boring and move along, want what they can't have. It does matter how good you are, " behind ever nice fine woman is a guy tired of having sex with her" try dating different guys and not giving all of them everything your husband should have. Good Luck.

Answer 7

So you wanna go out with me, right?