But he has a girlfriend. I'm trying to give this issue to God but I am having a hard time leaving it in God's hands. Anyone been there, done that? How do you stay satisfied while you wait for The One?
Answers from believers only, please.
2006-10-16 10:01:00 · 17 answers · asked by betrue 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's a hard place to be - I know. Staying satisfied isn't always enough - when you see all of your friends getting boyfriends/married .... it's not always so easy. I guess, I'd say turn to God - let Him be your "One" let Him fill your heart like no one else can. Let Him be your everything, and when the time is right (assuming that he has marriage planned for you) He'll bring the two of you together. There's a book called "When God Writes Your Love Story" - it helped me a lot when I was in that point in life. I can say from experience that constantly turning to God wasn't always easy, but it was the right thing. And God did bring my "someone" to me - but it wasn't who I thought it was going to be. It wasn't until I was satisfied with God and stopped looking for that someone, that God brought us together. Hope this helps.
2006-10-16 10:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue. I'm guessing that since this sounds like a first-time experience for you (being attracted to someone that's already involved) that you are probably in your early to mid teens, correct? Actually don't answer that, too many creepy people around here, I'll just assume. Anyway, just wait for them to break up. Teenage romances don't last. Yes, unfortunately that will mean yours, too, but forget about that, and have a good time while it lasts.
2006-10-16 10:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by The Resurrectionist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is wait. I know it may be are to do but remember things come to those who wait. Do not rush God or he may give it to you and it my not be what you wanted. So give to god and wait. Just keep reading the bible if you understand. I was where you were once and i know it hard but he showed my that, that person was not right from me. Again i say Wait.
2006-10-16 10:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bradley D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, the as a Christian all you should be doing is things to strengthen that relationship, pray for them and show support. You should also pray for the soul tie to break off of you. it's not good I had one for 3 years. GOD would not make you attracted to someone that's already dating somebody.
2006-10-16 10:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by JaimeM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if god wants you to be with him than he will make it happen.maybe God knows your not ready to handle that yet or he wants you to wait.you never know you could hook up with him in the future and be totaly suprised.I know what you mean though when you say your having a hard time with leaving it up to God.I had the biggest cruch on this boy and i was determined that we would be boyfriend and girlfriend well in the end i found out that he didnt like me (i think it was because i was to pushy)and know we arent really even friends.which is a shame cause he is a great guy.so in the end you just have to leave it up to God .i hope this helps you at all.just remember let God have controll .
2006-10-16 10:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by pianofanatic07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmmm....now why would God "create" you to be attracted to someone who is already in a relationship?
Ya know, I could go an hundred places with this....but since you dont want a response from a non-beleiver, Ill allow you to continue facing the world unprepared for the realness of it....
2006-10-16 10:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just believe! Believe in God! In the real faith there isn't any fear. If you listen to Him, he will show you the right way. But the right way is always harmonious with the Bible. So, I think you've to read Bible and pray to Him every day! And one more important thing: you always be happy!
2006-10-16 10:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by cukor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as theyre not married or engaged, i think its okay for you to let him know u like him, but 'do unto others as you'd have done to you' if you do that it might just happen to you that some girl comes and takes him away from you while you 2 are dating too. how about find somebody else who isn't 'involved'
2006-10-16 10:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some other guy to have sex with, preferably some one this guy you like knows. That will make him jealous and also hot for you because you put out.
2006-10-16 10:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that even for thinking that, Satan's demons are stoking up your corner of hell. Sorry. You knew the risks.
2006-10-16 11:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋