I am still in love with my ex boyfrien chris but weve been talking non stop for the past couple of weeks but he is always telling me about these new girls hes talking to like becky, but last night he told me he has very strong feelings for his ex girlfriend Karen, who he was with before me . He was my first love and no ohther man can ever compasre to him i really want hiam and i love him with alll of my heart still, but what do i do?????
2006-10-16 10:00:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOWZERS!
just tell him how u feel...
2006-10-16 10:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first things first girl.... how are you ever going to find a different guy who could somehow be the best thing for you if you don't stop talking to Chris all the time and start talking to other guys. I mean don't completely stop talking to him, but maybe you just need to keep your space away from him and give yourself time to properly heal from this dating experience with Chris. And sometimes girls think a guy is "the one for them" and "the only one that they will ever love" and yes, sometimes it is true and it does happen, but there are so many other times that girls think this way and then they just let other great opportunities pass them by because they were'nt willing and they didn't give other guys/girls chances. I don't know Chris and I don't know you so I don't know how good you are for each other, but if you still really like him, do something as simple as asking him if anything could ever happen between you too again or you could just let him know how you still feel. Depending on the answers and reactions to both of these suggestions, do what you feel is best.. and never forget that there really are other fishes in the sea, just make sure to give them a chance!
2006-10-16 17:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, never assume that no other man will ever compare to him. Give it some time, meet new guys and I bet you that if you give the next guy a chance he will be better than your ex. I know it is hard to get over a love, but believe me there are MANY great men out there for you!
2006-10-16 17:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to be with you, he'd make a move by now. He is treating you like a confidante.Nothing more. Nothing less, I'm afraid.
I know. It hurts, but you owe it to yourself to move on and find a new man. Plenty of fish in the sea and chances are you will find out that is even better than he is. Life is too short to idealize and fixate on ex-b/f's that you can no longer have.
2006-10-16 17:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think u shld talk to him face to face (so dat u'll see every expression on his face and every feeling in his eyes). Tell him how u feel. Tell him to stop bringing up issues abt his gfs, coz they weigh u down somehow. Be open and free coz it might turn out 2 be one right step to take. If u keep ur mouth shut and ur feelings to yourself, u'll either die in silence or u might lose one good thing in life. Who knows if he is still in luv with u and pretending to be happy with his new found crew.
So girl, start up a conversation. He might be waiting 4 this opportunity to speak his own feelings.
But if he has found happiness elsewhere, then u have to move on. Its not d end of the world. U'll find someone who u'll luv and wld luv u in return. Gudluck.
2006-10-16 17:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by genipabu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to how you feel... but it's time to move on. He doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship, and when he is, it's ambiguous at best. You deserve better! And I can guarantee you that a better man is out there who will appreciate you and love you more than you ever imagined.
2006-10-16 17:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, If hes telling you about all these feelings he has for other females, obiously hes not feeling you like that and your going to get your feelings hurt even more-
I know its hard and we often do compare everyone to our first love but Trust Me there is better out there, and when your ex knows your not available anymore, they usually come and try to get back...
2006-10-16 17:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might have to get rid of becky and karen
2006-10-16 17:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by dkgroce 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well he is playing mind games u paly with him with his own games. u tell him that that guy is hot, but dont be to desprate or make it look like u are doing it cuz he is telling u his stories, tell him in general start with some guy u liked b4 him , or say u met him and he was flirting w u.
2006-10-16 17:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him before he gets back with his former gf and then it will be too late for you. Don't be shy as you have been with him before and this is your chance. Its now or never.
Good luck and hope your love succeeds
2006-10-16 17:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes your first love becomes a habit and giving up a habit is a little difficult.
You will meet other guys and look back and wonder why you ever felt like this.........experience is the key to your release.
2006-10-16 17:06:35 · answer #11 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋