Mind you, I don't mind donating to causes, but one that gets me absolutely miffed is donating $ to girls that get pregnant!
One time a lady asked me could she have some $ for this cause.
I told her These girls have to keep THEIR LEGS CLOSED, AND NOT HAVE FUN, AT THE TAXPAYERS EXPENSE. I told her I use caution and don't want anyone footing the bill for my child, as I don't fool around.
** I am not talking about girls that got pregnant through rape or incest. That is different.**
2006-10-16 09:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
O.K. Yes, I do sound harsh, but just think about it in the back of the girl's mind she'll say: Oh, if I have a kid state and agencies will support me. Pregnancy is not a mistake or accident. Cone on. Girls are clever today, and they can use protection!
2006-10-16 09:55:14 · update #1
You say that girls need to keep their legs closed, but what about the guy??? Guys get off so damn easy, and it's people like you who like to blame the girls for these mistakes. Young girls need help and guidance through hard issues like these, but you sound like you'd turn your back.
I'm not saying that you have to donate to these causes, but maybe you need to look at these issues a little differently!
2006-10-16 09:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everyone makes mistakes, if you are going to donate then do it if not then Don't. But life goes on the tax money has to go somewhere so why not help others you and take cautions and still have a child.... plus who are you to judge what someone else does
2006-10-16 09:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everyone makes misteaks and cant always get things corrected alone. I think you dont understand how hard it is to turn life around when you have a child as a single mother and how the state doesnt always force the father to support the child.
2006-10-16 09:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by msqtech 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"THEIR LEGS CLOSED, AND NOT HAVE FUN, AT THE TAXPAYERS EXPENSE." That's so judgemental and harsh. What is the name of the cause or charity? Ive never heard of this before. If it's a donation, it doesn't come out of your taxes. So where does "TAXPAYERS EXPENSE" come from?
2006-10-16 09:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by jen m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I was gonna respond however I think all these other people pretty much summed up what I was gonna say. Knock on wood sweetie that you are not jinxed and end up the parent of a juvenile that should have," kept her legs closed", as you put it.
2006-10-16 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by yomama h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so did you donate for the rape girls
2006-10-16 09:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋