OK theres this girl that is driving me out of my mind and I do mean out of my mind...now my question to you girls is: what would you think if someone asked you to got out with them but in writting?... I mean I talk to her and all but when it comes to those words of ..What are you doing this friday or anything like that I just go silent and i just get nervous out of my mind now ive been on dates but with girls that asked me and been in realationships but this would be my 1st time I asked some one...and I am one of those last "True Romantics"(According to some Girl Friends-Just Friends because they've seen the way i treat the girls ive dated...) but I am much better doing it in paper than it words......AHAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH its killing me. how Would you Feel IF a guy asked you out and told you how he felt about you in paper? Girls Pls Answer!!!
2006-10-16 09:47:51 · 13 answers · asked by Spike Spiegel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love letters are a lost art. But that would be really sweet and I'm sure she'd say yes! Just speak from your heart and handwrite it. That'll show you put in the effort. You could also tie it with a ribbon to a rose. So romantic!! Don't wait until its to late though.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-10-16 09:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Annieo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay... so if anyone ever asked me to go out on date with them in writing I personally would think it was cute, but just like your friends tell you that you're a true romantic, I hear the exact same things from my friends too. So here's what I think you should do, if you know her well enough that you have her cell number and you have a cellphone why don't you just text her a message asking her if she would like to go out to dinner sometimes. Text messaging is the new way to ask people out because like you there are a lot of people who can't ask a girl/boy out without making a fool of themselves and since we are so technologically advanced text messaging is the way to go. It's easy and if she turns you down it doesn't hurt as much. As for writing her the note to tell her everything you feel about her... I would say keep that on the DL until you have the feeling that she has feelings for you as well, but if you can't wait, than you know what GO FOR IT and if she doesn't have the same feelings for you well then at least you told her and you will never ask the question WHAT IF because then that would make you go even crazier. GOOD LUCK :)
2006-10-16 10:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok seriously this will work. strike up a conversation with her in general.. then ask her for her e-mail address or her IM name so you can chat sometime or send her some cool stuff you have.. etc whatever doesnt matter she will give it to you.
Start conversation on line send her cool pics etc.. something funny or cute nothing gross or controversial.. something light hearted.
then when you are e-mailing back and forth or on IM casually ask her out. ask her if she has seen a certain movie first ask her what movies she likes then ask her if she wants to go see something new based on what movies she said she likes.
be casual about it. light hearted... and have fun dating is supposed to be fun! good luck! no matter what if she likes you she will say yes. if she says shes busy ask when is good for you if she isn't that specific then say ok well how about you let me know.. and do just that wait for her to bring it up again.. if she doesn't then shes not interested... Also don't be cocky or macho but be confident.. girls love confident men.
2006-10-16 09:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by donyafs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that wen i a guy is to shy to ask a girl out in person is a little cute an i dig that but other girls might not but if you cannot find a way to ask the girl out then i say go for its better then not trying at all.... sometimes girls find that attractive in guys i know because i had a guy ask me out be writing a letter to me but i didn't like the guy the same way cuz first of all he was like my best friend an it would feel weird, but i still thought that was very sweet of him to tell me in that form. so i think that you should definitely use the letter to let her know how you feel about her an to ask her out.....
2006-10-16 10:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by s3xY m@ma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 06:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would seem wierd how about you just call her up and ask but if it goes silent then mabey she is not in to you like that... but do ask it is awlways worth a shot.... but what do i know i am 14 almost 15..lol good luck
2006-10-16 09:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was sweet! I mean I love the nervous guys! As long as I know that you're too nervous to ask me in person, I would totally think it was a sweet gesture!
Good luck :)
2006-10-16 09:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you write out your thoughts better then speaking them. I do not see a problem with that. I mean you are going to have to have some verbal communication. Try writing everything out and then saying it to the person.
2006-10-16 09:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it would be totally romantic! But you will have to talk to her face if you want to do something with her. But the paper thing would tickle me to pieces. Good Luck!
2006-10-16 09:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its really sweet that you like this girl that much. If it were me i would wont you to say it to me. yea i know its hard, but i like this guy, and by the time i built up enough courage to ask him to go out with me, he already had a girl! SO ASK HER!
2006-10-16 09:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by ktkiokins14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋