My ex and I started dating almost a year ago. I got with him for all the worng reasons. We broke up so many times in the past yr. he has seven gfs at a time but every time he tries you get back with me he will dumped them all for me. He was put in the physc ward twice last yr because I didn’t love him anymore. Now he has a new gf that he said he loves…but in drama practice yesterday he grabbed me and wouldn’t let e get off his lap. He kept kissing my face and telling me how much he loved and how much he misses me. I had two rings on my finger that he gave me ..he took one back and put it on hi finger and then gave me a piggy back ride. My ex best friend iis mad and keeps on flirting with him, but since he isn’t interested in her she keeps on threatening to tell tell his new gf athat he stil likes me. The thing is im not sure if he does..he doesn’t show me as much affection anymore, but he is still possessive ad obessed with me.
Is he more obsessed with me than in luv with me?
Is he just staying around me incase his relationship goes sour?
Is he there b/c he needs someone who understands?
Is it b/c he still loves me?
2006-10-16 09:47:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lets recap what you told us about him; he has had as many as 7 girlfriends at the same time (conclusion, he is a cheater). He was in the hospital last year for psych treatment twice (conclusion, his elevator doesnt go all the way to the top floor). And forced you to sit on his lap (possible future as a rapist). As if all these things were not bad enough, he gave you a piggyback ride, that is unreal, why would he do that (this is bad for his back). He sounds like a total loser so you need to do just what you are doing and keep taking him back, you are doing the right thing.
2006-10-16 09:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by mark f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both have some problems. You should have nothing to do with him; who cares what he says? If he loves you so much why is he with so many other women?
He's very unstable and you seem to like the attention of the drama. Tell this guy to leave you alone or you'll get a restraining order. This is a train wreck. Who cares what his motives are, what he's feeling, etc...
2006-10-16 16:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a mess. You shouldn't be dealing with your ex period, based on what you said.
- Obsession in relationships are ruinous, beware!
- He's staying around you because he wants just a "female" in his life.
- Since you've been with him already, he probably set you as his default girl
- It is not love, rather foolish, immature emotion.
MOVE ON, STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY. People need to be healthy minded to be in a relationship, Period.
2006-10-16 16:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Psylence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making too much of this, and he is just playing with you. You are the one obsessed, just let go and realize he is a dud. He has been in the mental hospital, stay away from this man. Smile and be nice, but do not encourage him. He is a nutcase.
2006-10-16 16:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just from what you said.......sounds like a loser all the way around.girlfriend look at the whole picture. You are the one who keeps taking him back and he knows that you will.You are allowing him to walk all over you. Put a stop to it. Tell him where to get off. sounds like a big player....and you are the one who keeps getting played.
2006-10-16 16:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by beauty_in_paradise2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely hope that you do not take this the wrong way but I think it isn't that he loves u but he's obsessed with u. u should talk to him...calmly. and your ex best friend should stay out of it. i hope this helps. good luck.
2006-10-16 16:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a divorce which means it did not work out the first time.
Don't be stupid by getting involved with him again. You'll be sorry if you do.
2006-10-16 16:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's nutz and you should move on before you end up in a trunk in his basement in a bunch of little pieces.
2006-10-16 16:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kayl Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he's mentally unstable and overly dependent. Get away from him if you care about yourself at all.
2006-10-16 16:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by twasbrillig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that goes back to their ex is an idiot.
2006-10-16 16:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋