I am tall with few extra pounds (average). Is true that some women like men with some extra pounds. But, why? They looking for other things? What things? Money? Face? Mind? Thinking?
2006-10-16 09:46:58 · 14 answers · asked by nrq8m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Empathy. I'm fairly tall as a woman, and I'm not a petite butterfly either (5'7" 135lbs) and there's something about a larger man enveloping me in his arms that sends me to cloud nine. I think a part of it also plays into the survival instinct nestled in the recesses of our 'hind-lizard-brain', the part of us that persues this or that for purely animalistic purposes. Larger man=well fed, possibly alpha. A fair portion of women are also aroused by full-body tactile sensations during 'intimate relations'. A larger man means more full-body contact. When you throw in preconcieved notions (sometimes good, sometimes bad, all a matter of perspective), the image of the large man tends to be happy-go-lucky and friendly or the big bad biker-esque type guy, both of which can turn on the right buttons fo the right gal. ;)
-from the woman who loves big burly 'pirate-laughter'ey men
2006-10-16 09:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
hmmm....are you asking because you have a few extra pounds and are interested in only meeting thin pretty women? First of all, if that is the case then you should be more open minded a bit - since you never know what you might pass up looking only for a thin pretty women - second of all, (speaking from my own opinion) I think men with a few extra pounds are much more attractive than very thin men. There is something about a big strong man that every woman loves!
2016-05-22 07:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like men with a few extra pounds because there is a teddy bear affect that women love. We love to cuddle with a man. The few extra pounds allows us to have something to hold on to. As far as the face goes, it's always a plus to be attracted to the person as well. However, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
A woman still like to be taken care of even though she makes her own money. I believe the man and woman should take care of one another. Mind and thinking go together. Make sure your bills are paid!!! Yes, that is a part of having a peaceful mind when your bills are paid. Some women do find men more attractive when their finances are in tact...not perfect. There are places you may want to take her and you don't want to be counting your pennies every date you go on.
If you have unresolved issues with your past...deal with them. they will only come back to haunt you in your relationships. Know your triggers. Know what makes you upset. To thine own-self be true. It is important for you to know who you are and what you will and will not tolerate in a relationship.
I believe you will be ok, just make sure you take care of yourself and your business.
2006-10-16 10:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by seekleer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are not not shallow...some women can accept a man just the way he is even if it means him having a few extra pounds....thats what's wrong with this world today, to many people judge a book by its cover and not whats really inside
2006-10-16 09:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women like to think that they are much better then their man. Seems silly, but yes, this is what happens.
So a few extra pounds on Charlie is actually good for her.
2006-10-16 09:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like my men to be smart, funny, respecting, humorus, communicating and loving. I also would like my man to have a few extra pounds because I can grab on something while I'm hugging him. being skinny doesn't really attract me. every women is different.
2006-10-16 09:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is an easy one... my friend it all comes down to personal preference. Thats it! Everyone woman is different and each like different things. It's the same as why some men prefer blonde or brunettes or redheads...
2006-10-16 09:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how about maybe the guy with a few extra pounds has a wonderful sense of humor, he's kind, gentle and loving??
2006-10-16 09:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by maccrew6 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Flabby? Mucles? Looking for a big teddy bear to cuddle with.
2006-10-16 09:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A guy is a guy no matter what his size.
When you get to know him his size doesn't even matter. If you love someone you see everything about them as beautiful even a few extra pounds. A guy could be in perfect shape but not the perfect guy.
2006-10-16 09:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋