Is it wrong or bad of me to see an ex of an acquaintance...The girl only calls me for favors, or when she needs something. Now her ex is calling me and asking to see more of me. I just got out of a serious relationship about a month ago and now I feel as if this new person calling me is the perosn that will help me move forward in my life. So whats your opinion??
2006-10-16 09:42:22 · 18 answers · asked by Amber K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you think it would upset her and her being upset would make you feel bad then dont do it. If you dont care what she thinks go for it. either way you dont have to rush into anything..
Take your time and figure it out as you go.. you never knoe there could be a very good reason hes an EX...
no matter what dont let it ruin a good friendship in any situation..
2006-10-16 09:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by donyafs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you might get rid of the acquaintance who calls for favors that way!
Intellectually, you should probably hold off on seeing someone for a while...preferably someone not formerly involved with someone you know, but emotionally, I'd probably date the guy. How about making it understood that it's very casual?
Good luck.
2006-10-16 09:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by dashelamet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to be honest about your relationship with your acquaintance, if this is a person who you have no loyalty to or they to you, then you should feel free to explore any relationship you want with their ex, but just by going through the process of finding out if this is o.k. suggest you must feel some loyalty to your acquaintance. don't let lust blur the lines of friendship.
2006-10-16 09:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by v.p. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to rush into anything so quickly. Give yourself time to reset your priorities and goals first. If you eventually began to see this guy, make it very casual initially. You must also prepare to get disapproval and possible hostility from your "user" friend. If you're looking to smooth your life out, that decision would be your worst choice. She would be determined for that not to happen.
2006-10-16 09:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that he thought about you while screwing your friend earlier. Now he needs someone in bed too in the mean time he gets his hands on the next one! You are in no shape to get into anything at this point. Tk Cr, Tom bh37bh37@yahoo.com
2006-10-16 09:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you this!!!
Stear clear...unless you are ready to be named everything in the book! I did this last yr and it was the biggest mistake ever!!! LOL I mean i had fun with the guy but man did it spoil alot of things between a friend and me.
2006-10-16 09:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by greatgiginthesky_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This acquaintance thinks she is a friend. If you see her ex, you will lose a potential friend. Is it worth it?
2006-10-16 09:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you move forward but yourself .He is calling to see you. he does not want to listen to your tales of woe..You sound desperate to me ...she only calls when she wants this or that[[excuses]] so you won't feel guilty..You need to rethink your feelings and stop jumping the gun...sureill
2006-10-16 09:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she really isn't a friend, i would go for it. however, do not use that poor guy to help you move forward from your other relationship. do not get involved in another relationship until you are ready. it isn't fair to either one of you.
2006-10-16 09:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an ex of someone you hardly talk to. What would be wrong with that?
2006-10-16 09:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋