Im wondering a few things actually , what makes you reject a guy . What do most guys do that kills attraction , Whats is a cooler personality to attracting you James bond or Johnny Depp in pirates of the caribbean . Why is brad pit so cool i dont see , explain ? .
Anyone answers well and ill send u a pic of me naked lol na just kidding your not that lucky .
2006-10-16 09:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reasons to reject a man:
1. No manners. I don't mean the pinky out while drinking tea type manners. Just the basics...don't belch, spit, hack, pick your nose, scratch your whatever. It would be nice if you can hold a door open now and then, but I'm not into having some guy run around the car to open the door nonsense...I can open the door, thanks.
2. Controlling / bossy / demanding. Really now? Like any of these would ever work on me in what alternate reality?
3. More baggage than the main terminal at JFK International on their busiest travel day. We all have "baggage" that comes with our lives if we're over the age of 5, but there really needs to be a two bag limit (no more than 50 pounds each), one personal bag and a carryon rule for emotional baggage...just like the airlines.
4. Vulgar / dirty / rude / angry as a rule and not just in those occasional moments. This may fall under emotional baggage, but some men think women actually find these things attractive. If you can't say a sentence without a profanity..or You think water and soap are evil or You can't treat another human being decently or You seriously need anger management...thanks, but "bye bye".
5. Deceitful / dishonest / cheat. Relationships are built on trust. If you're going be deceitful, dishonest or a cheat...I'm not interested. Oh..I may screw with your mind a little just to torture you, but you definitely aren't a "keeper".
6. Needy / whine-y / emotionally manipulative - this much like #2, but more annoying. Children under the age of 5 do these behaviors. If you're over 5....STOP NOW!!
That should about cover the worst offenders. (*laughter*)
Hmmm...have to admit, I'd find the whole "James Bond" sort more attractive than Johnny Depp as a pirate thing. (Although James Bond pretending to be a pirate could be interesting.) I don't see Brad Pitt as cool, or even marginally attractive, so I have no idea.
Ahhh..I'll pass on the picture of you naked.
2006-10-16 10:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ... let's see ... first of all , what most guys do wrong is being mysterious and unclear about his feelings , he could be sitting in front of me discussing some issue while in his mind he can be thinking about a totally different thing ... you know ... and this really frustrates me coz it 's like i can't even understand what's going on inhis mind and consequently , we aren't able to get along .. you know..
james bond is sexier although i'm crazy about johnny deep but i'm crazy about those guys who are elegant and who take care of the way they look fluently ... you know ... it just gets me on ...
i used to be a great fan of brad pitt but i don't know why since he broke up with jennifer i stopped loving him anymore ... do you think that his popularity was to some extend related to his so called perfect marriage with jennifer ? most of the girls do like him because of his looks but actually i would never like a guy who betray his gf , wife or whomever .. it's a total turn off...
2006-10-16 09:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like when a guys are not themselves . . . . if you're a dork - then be a dork! if you are a nerd - then be a nerd! Its not about being something that your not that Im going to fall for . . . . I dont want to fall for a fake!
I, myself, dont like someone that smoothers me . . . . please dont call me, text me, email me, fax me, etc in a time frame of 2 hours! thats too much!
Brad Pitt is cool because of his confidence! but he's a bastard! Same for James Bond ~ same for Johnny! plus it helps that they are really good to look at!
2006-10-16 10:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by sparkle_612 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me its over confidence and / or thinking they are better than somebody else. Especially if they voice that opinion by making fun of someone. So not attractive.
2006-10-16 09:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Not_a_toothless_pirate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me it would have to be if they are thinking that we went out on a date because he was the best, you know if he was arrogant. i cannot stand that it totally kills anything that i have for them, or maybe when they think that they are smarter. anything that pertains in them thinking so highly of themselves.
2006-10-16 09:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋