I like a girl but the problem is with horoscopes. I got it checked personally, I was told they are okay to go ahead. But my parents got it checked and find some fault. I am in a fix, cannot hurt anyone, but love the girl seriously. I am sure I will never get such a loving and caring girl for me. Suggestions please. How do I convience my parents?
2006-10-16 09:39:39 · 19 answers · asked by Kansha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First you need to go on how you feel. Second if you HAVE to by something in writing, for your parents happiness then look up different sites on the web. If you love this girl she is worth it. I have no idea what two signs you two are but if you love each other then that is the most important. Sit down and explain that to them (your parents) and show them some positive the information you found.
2006-10-16 10:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by cinnagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to me Horoscopes are a definite plus when you have plans to Marry. But there has been cases where in good horoscope matches have led to the marriage being not so successful. ULTIMATELY all that matters for any relationship to last is devotion, understanding, love and care. Always remember even once you are married you should give an individuality to ur spouse. All the best pal !!!
2006-10-16 10:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Abhilash Kumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I like getting involved with horoscopes, I think that they don't play almost any role in a person's decisions,let alone decisions so important for their life.The only thing you have to do to convience your parents is to prove them that your feelings for this girl are true and that you really want to make family and children with her.i think that it's enough!So,PAY ATTENTION!DO not leave the girl you love go away only because your parents doubt that your horoscopes are not ok.Take my advice seriously and you will see.GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-16 09:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by ANGEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's the people's choice to choose their marriage. As long as they're legal, then they can do what they want. As for me, I would not even think of marriage until I'm at least 30. I don't even know if I want to do marriage. It's too early for me to think of it. My sense my judgement in my pre-frontal cortex isn't even fully developed yet until age 25. When I see a young friend get married I say congratulations however I think that they're ruining their lives. Early marriage has a high rate of divorce. I feel that life needs to be experienced more, I don't see the reason to jump in and give your life away to someone right away. If you're young, you have a long life ahead of you and need to go through experiences to become a more wiser and stronger individual to prepare for marriage. BQ1: I'm not sure yet. Time will tell. BQ2: That's a hard decision. Right now in my mind I'm leaning towards no. I have never really liked children. I don't know if I'd be the best mother with my busy profession. I don't plan to be the stay at home mom. Nor, do I expect my future partner to be the stay at home dad. I'd like a partner at my education level or higher.
2016-03-28 12:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not, and I repeat, DO NOT live your life by a horoscope! If you love this girl, seriously, then you will ask her to marry you. Who cares what a horoscope says? Mine tells me every other day that I will gain financial wealth, but I didn't go in and quit my job because it said that. Just tell your parents, I love her and that's that. Nothing you say can change my mind, and I wish you would get to know her so you can see in her what I see.
2006-10-16 09:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this horoscope thing is one of the stupidiest superstition we indians could do. these are just practice to confirm their faith in casteism. so forget all these crap. marriages are built by love , respect & faith , not by some half naked pandit telling us what to do .
these things will haunt u till u believe in them . just imagine , even if the horoscope is allright , then will it take any guarantee that nothing would happen wrong after marriage , ........ nope ? so how can they tell that this girl is right or wrong on the basis of some peice of crap.
so dont worry & get married with same girl cuz if something wrong happens then its ur fate , not the girl who should be blamed.
i hope alls well for u !
my best wishes are with u , good luck & happy marriage life !
2006-10-16 14:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by aa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horoscope is a good Science.
But there is no 100% good interpreter.
In marriage alliances it is used to fulfil their unwillingness in harmless way.
Try to convince your parents.
Forget the Horoscope or forget the girl.
Do not carry both and make life miserable.
Life is interesting because of challenges.
When one problem is causing difficulty to solve don't blame the girl or Horoscope.
Decide now itself.
2006-10-16 15:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Kuppu S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there not, if your going to base your marriage on the horoscopes then l wouldnt get married at all. horoscopes are just some person sitting at a desk, typing what they thing the stars say.
2006-10-16 09:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horoscopes are not at all important when getting married. What is important is that you both love each other and make each other happy.
2006-10-16 09:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by cute angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone is going to allow a horoscope to tell them how to lead their life...and whom to associate with, then they don't care much for the people they are deciding to ditch, based on astrology...
Horoscopes are entertaining...and occasionally correct (they tend to be so general, it would be hard not to hit the mark from time to time)...but there's no way I'd ever allow astrology to dictate how I live my life, or whom I'm going to associate with...
2006-10-16 09:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋